Hey guys - i never posted here but i read a lot of the threads. I feel as if you guys could help me out with some advice or personal experiences.

Title says it all. I am a loser. I am 26 YO, graduated and college 5 years ago. During college, I didn't make they many friends since I tried to attend medical school but I failed despite decent score (applied 4 times). I dated a girl one time but it fell apart - i think she was interested in me since my dad was wealthy. Other girls were interested in me but I always was very paranoid and self sabotaging. I am not that bad looking - but I never had a girl or any relationship. My father was wealthy so he paid for my college and I currently live at home with him. I work in a chemistry lab and I get paid 28k a year. I was not able to find a job after college after searching for so long. I tried to make a living off trading stocks and poker and I made a bunch of money and then lost a bunch of money. I ended up in 70k of debt. My father bailed me out of 30k but he says he can't afford anything else so I'm currently 40k in the hole with NOTHING to my name - no car - no retirement - nothing. I was always a smart person and I attended an top 20 undergrad - 99% ACT. Now I feel like a loser. No dating life, no financial success, no career future. I literally spend everyday after working jacking off and watching TV/youtube. I use to be very fit but now I am overweight. I feel like my life is over. I always put myself 2nd in my life and the people at my job get paid 30% more than what I do. I see other people attending law school, med school, dental school, high paying jobs, etc while I am in the red with no social life or anything. I let people step over my all of my life because I feel guilty hurting other people's feelings. I am too scared to leave my job to go back to school since my boss will get mad since I made a commitment. The worse part is my dad is disappointed in who I became. I spent my weekends playing X-box with a few friends from HS who don't do much either - small time jobs.

I need help being a man and becoming someone. I need advice. thanks guys