I give up

Lavlamp · 2018-04-05T03:13:37+00:00

It takes time man. Sometimes months, sometimes years. You need to learn to not care about women, they are a nice addition to an already great life. Get your shit so on lock that any women you date will be the ones who loose out if/when you split.

Stop looking for a unicorn, they don't exhist. Men fall in "love" easily, so learn to pick up red flags early. Also ***Find a girl who has a good relationship with her father, this is probably the best advice I can give you.

SgtBrutalisk · 2018-04-05T03:34:43+00:00

If you trust a dog and it turns out to bite you because of rabies, whose fault was it? No one's, it just happened but you were supposed to be the sentient one and yet didn't pay attention to red flags.

Their family was dysfunctional as f*ck but I didn't care

That's where you torpedoed yourself. Mental illness tends to be hereditary so if her family has issues it's very likely she'll have the exact same ones too. We all go through darker moments but it's all about shielding a candle's flame in a tornado, so to speak.

Can anyone else related to this feeling? This "who cares" attitude towards women that some days goes as far as being an outrage rage and disgust towards them?

We call it "the anger phase". You'll get over it.

Understand that a healthy relationship with women is one in which you both grow, together. It doesn't have to last a lifetime and might not even last a year but once you understand that women have both good and bad qualities to offer you'll aim to discern and spend time with women where you're both likely to share pleasant moments. That's all there is to it, just living a pleasant, stress-free life.

Black_m0ngoose · 2018-04-05T03:47:08+00:00

Women have never mattered.

You are not missing out on anything.

Learn to love your solitude- you're still attempting to hold on to the Bluepill dream that was sold to you.

Rise above that.

When I clasp hands with my friends and family, as we all struggle to find our way in life, I discovered there is nothing quite as close as the love between brothers and fathers. "This is what true love feels like." It all made sense why women discouraged bonds between men, calling it gay- you take away the power of women to manipulate men when men operate under their own collective frame.

Find your brothers out there, women are there to simply cook, clean, suck your dick, and make babies. They're not a shoulder to cry on, they're not an ally you can lean on, they're not a companion to carry your load. They weren’t built for that.

If you want unconditional love, buy dogs. They'll do anything for your validation.

There is so much more to life than sitting around crying into your pillow how women don't love you. There are mountains to climb, obstacles to overcome, food to eat, random girls to fuck, laughs to be had with brothers, adventures to conquer, battles to be won.

Don't get caught up in the lies. Go out there and live your life. You're a man, now. Conduct yourself as such.

Marcus1138 · 2018-04-05T03:53:11+00:00

Welcome to the anger phase my friend. We've all been here, and I know it sucks. Hell, some of us go through it a few times.

Eventually you get over it, but it hurts. Here's the thing - women are people, just like you and me. We hurt people too, and do stupid things, or do self-serving things that hurt others. People act in their own best interests, and that means other people get shafted. It fucking sucks when you don't see it coming, and it can indeed take months or years to fully get over this.

In the end, everyone's just doing what they can to get by. The only thing you can control is yourself, and that's the key to finding some degree of happiness and closure. You can improve your body, your mind, and your situation so that you have more opportunities in life, and so that you attract the type of people you want to be with.

The hardest part is realizing that you're not there yet, and that no matter how amazing you become there will always be elements of unpredictability and personal taste that make the world act irrationally. But fuck those random issues - your goal is to average everything out into an awesome life.

You're probably still pissed, and not really interested in reading this. But come back to it in a few days or weeks. TRP is a humbling experience, but if you stick around you'll learn a lot and if you start implementing what you learn you'll find your current situation isn't as shitty as it feels.

samjsmrnm · Thu Apr 5 3:07:13 2018 UTC

I'm a woman and even I am disgusted with myself after discovering TRP because all of it is true.

Title	I give up
Author	jinglebells89
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	April 5, 2018 2:59 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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