I’ll start off saying I’m not the worst looking guy or the best looking guy, I can get all kinds of girls if I apply myself. I usually make a girl laugh and that’s how I get ‘in’, so to speak.

Lately, I’ve met this girl and I’ve been trying to hide the fact that I’ve fallen so hard for her. She’s already dropped the ‘I love you’ bomb to me and I reciprocated but now I feel like I’m losing frame. We have so much in common and agree on all things and I feel like it’s turning me into a beta bitch. She’s still really into me even after I’ve shit tested her, many times.

I even shit tested her last night and went out to a bar and ignored her all night like an alpha and she was texting me worried and such. But it’s like sometimes I’m texting her and I’m getting way too into my feelings w the girl. I know if you get too into your feelings girls usually see this as weak.

How do I back off a little without pushing her away entirely? To gain my balls back? I’ll probably get hate for this post but I’m just seeking out a bit of advice from other people, in which I’ll take with a grain of salt because that’s just my nature, I do wtf I want. I’m usually pretty pro with the ladies but this girl is everything I like so I’m just searching a bit of advice.

TL;DR- how do you gain back a bit of frame without pushing away the girl I’m into?