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[–]abdada2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My last 11 years of LTRs were with women who don't drink at all, who don't have tattoos or any history of drugs, who are usually in bed by 10pm and up by 6am even on Saturdays and Sundays.
They never did "girls night out" or "weekends at burning man" or any of that shit.
And I've met dozens of similar women in those years who I didn't date because I didn't have time to or I thought they were ready for husbands and not just the fun and hot boyfriend material that I will always be.
Stop hanging out at places where losers hang out and start doing things that make you valuable to winners. If you're a loser, you will only attract other losers.
I'm going to guess you qualify as a loser yourself. Do you fit into any of these topics?
Any of those true? Change those areas, right now.
[–]sandbm5 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you don't mind me asking, but why did those relationships fail?
[–]abdada1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% (minus 1) of my ex-LTRs were fully ready for marriage and to meet the captain of the ship, whereas I was not ready for that at all. In all the cases but one, they married the next guy they met -- and those were GREAT guys.
I am really close to one of my exes and her husband (and now their kids). We actually owned a lake boat together and the guy loves me like a brother (he's aware that I was the one who forced red pill truths into her mind). We've discussed starting a small side business together.
Another ex of mine and her husband are big customers of mine -- I met him first, and he met her through me after we had broken up. Great people, beautiful woman, and she's pregnant and he's ecstatic (but stoic, lol).
I never stopped loving a woman I had loved, to the point that I am not going to waste their youth and beauty when they finally come to realize they want kids. I'm a great boyfriend, but I'm not ready to be the captain of a home, a family, and all that stuff. I'm getting close to that time, maybe when I hit 45 or so I'll make the change.
I'm a big fan of not dating losers. There's no purpose in my life to date losers. The sex isn't better. The weekends aren't better. The downtime and vacations aren't better. Losers are dramatic and too high energy and you can never satiate their addicted minds.
[–]1favours_of_the_moon1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't put your self worth, or the experienceworthiness of your life on a woman.
If a woman knows she has that, or anything else over you, she will hold it over you as much as she possibly can until you have nothing left to give and are nothing anymore.
Then she'll find someone who is.
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