It's time to revisit action dates; was Pook wrong?

owlsden · 2018-03-28T02:11:34+00:00

I think you're wrong.

Action dates only signify too much investment if it's an activity you wouldn't normally be doing. The key for this is that you actually need to be an interesting, active kind of guy. When you take her out on an 'action date', you're just allowing her the opportunity to come along on the exciting ride that is your life. You're not trying to impress her or doing anything special.

I'd also argue that even drinks or a walk can be action dates. You need to think a little more creatively. Rather than just going out for drinks you go on a bar-hopping tour of the coolest spots in town. Rather than going for a walk you go check out that outdoor festival at a neat park.

If you are the kind of guy that goes sky diving every weekend then by all means take her along. If not, it's gonna seem try-hard. Personally I think bowling is kinda lame, but if you are an ace bowler then sure, take her bowling, let her see you in your element.

Title	It's time to revisit action dates; was Pook wrong?
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Date	March 28, 2018 1:47 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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