When I was living overseas I met the 'perfect' chick. We never got together, I was figuring my life out then moved home. We keep in touch as friends. Things looked more and more serious, she wants to visit - is flirtatious.

Fast forward several months. She seems weird, tells me she had shallow 'open relationship' with guy she knew had a gf. He pissed off, she feels like shit. Me, I'm pissed and heat-broken. She admits she wants me, but not at the moment while she 'pieces life back together.' After reading RP I suspect shit test.

Read RP some more. Pissed off that she wasn't who I thought she was. Realise even if she does want me I don't want someone with that lower value of self. Realise feeling like shit doesn't get you anywhere, overcome bitterness, flirt with some girls. Know I deserve better. I block emails, block Skype. Move on. Happiness.