Just my two cents

hrm0894 · 2015-01-29T17:04:30+00:00

but honestly thinking women aren't your equals is another thing

It's not that women aren't our equals but rather that men and women are not equal, period. We aren't the same mentally or physically by nature.

noahbish · 2015-01-29T17:26:03+00:00

Redpill does not condone degrading women or manipulating them to get what we want. RedPill is about understanding sexual strategies of both sexes. It's about being a better man and improving your Sexual Market Value and your life outside of women in order to position yourself to find the mate that is best suited for you, instead of settling for a woman with no value. You're a feminist! Great! We don't care! We don't condone rape or calling women names. I am not sure where you came up with this notion? I am assuming you read 4 or 5 random, horribly written post and decided you would grace us with your opinion. Read the sidebar if you are actually wanting to gain information. This was posted on a thread earlier this week:

Ask a woman what it takes to land a smart, pretty and fun girlfriend and you will invariably get the same answers: "be yourself!" "be nice!" "be respectful!" "be a gentleman!"

Here would be a red pill response: Don't BE YOURSELF! Be the very best version of yourself. Never stop growing or pushing your comfort levels. Understand that growth is not limited but rather infinite. Never let another person distract you from your goals or compromise yourself. The price is too great.

BE NICE to yourself. Read, Learn, meet people, and be happy with yourself. Do things that you enjoy. Get your teeth fixed. Go get Lasik, Take an extra job or find ways to better your financial situation. BE NICE to yourself and bring value into your life. Women will notice and want to be a part of it.

BE RESPECTFUL. Of course be respectful to people but more importantly be a RESPECTFUL man in the sense you are respected and refuse disrespect. Ensure you have boundaries . In your personal life as well as in relationships. A woman needs a man she can push against and be supported. Be the strong and stoic man that she can lean on in any situation.

BE A GENTLEMAN. Be a man that is gentle in dealings with situations that warrant such actions. However you are not a GENTLE MAN. YOU ARE A MAN. As men we easily have to capacity to fight, negate threats to loved ones, build great civilizations, and consistently work towards bettering our lives.

EDIT: Formatting

noahbish · 2015-01-29T17:34:46+00:00

IMO, as a man, thinking of yourself as above your potential partners is kind of essential to getting dates, maintaining attraction, and having a mutually beneficial relationship. Or at least, I can't maintain frame without that premise.

I do root the premise in socialization, rather than Evo psych. I really dislike how prevalent Evo psych is as evidence here; I see it as a causal explanation with no evidence, something to help internalize it intuitively. Too many things in science "sound right," but are the opposite in practice. So I use the feminist explanation: socialization.

Women are socialized to preen, not lead. To find a provider, not to be one. To be romanced, not to be romantic. And yet if they want to be these things, it's encouraged. It should be encouraged, but it would be nice if it was an option if you wanted it, not a requirement to being a basic functioning human being. And then you have the sexual market..

Responsibility is a privilege? Sure, but it's still a hell of a challenge we get no sympathy or support for from our peers.

For myself, the real issue was a lack of male role model. I either had shit useless bitch ones or briefly encountered, comedically feminized ones.

Dev_on · 2015-01-29T16:59:55+00:00

If you just got here, there no way you've read any sidebar material, let alone understand it enough to comment yet..

It's not elitist, everyone is saving time by getting you up to speed

papirojo · 2015-01-29T17:30:08+00:00

The fact that you are on the rape crisis centre committee is irrelevant. Good on you for helping those who experience this misfortune but you are weakly attempting to associate us with rape. Contrary to what you may have heard, we do not condone that.

Title	Just my two cents
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Date	January 29, 2015 4:45 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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