I am a self employed and hard working dude. I am an avid sports fan (soccer) and I am also a gym enthusiast. My workouts consist of 5 days workout, 2 days rest. I also go to watch soccer live every other week. I have a lot of friends who I hang out with, go see a movie etc, including family. I also like to go out and hit some bars on the weekend. I have a reasonably busy life (interpret it what you will).

In all honesty, for the first time in my life, I don't honestly feel the need, nor have the time to harp on about how I dont have a gf, or perhaps that need to maybe get some action, as I am just too fucking busy.

I cancelled a girl on friday, because she was being too flakey, so my terms, or no terms. I met about 4/5 different chicks saturday and one girl was like "i'd take your number" nah sorry, Im too busy I'll take yours and call you, she said no, so I moved the fuck on.

I'm not saying its a hectic crazy life style, but I'm doing all the things I enjoy. I love how theres always something on, somewhere to go, something to do. Its the best I've ever ever felt. And its just keeping busy.

I strongly recommend the busier you are in youre life, the more fulfilled it is. It may not be climbing a mountain, but waking up knowing today you got to work, eat, workout, eat, go watch some soccer, chill with friends, play some GTA V at home, read sleep. Your day is packed. I am struggling to see time for a gf, and I pity those who make their lives around the gfs.