Humans differ from animals in that we have culture and language. While the languages women and men are the same if you just listen to the words, the way of communicating and the meaning of the words are completely different, because of the way men and women are completely different in their gifts in life and in their goals.

First of all, why can people be manipulated through words and language? It is because of our species' long childhood. We sacrifice some control of our own mind to be able to receive knowledge. Biology cannot determine what is good indoctrination (knowledge) and what is bad. Biology can only open the door. We are the only species of life that opened that door, losing some sovereignty as a result. All other animals are ruled by instincts and their behavior can only change through evolution, which takes a very long time. Human advancement through culture is millions of times faster than evolution.

That's why people can be manipulated and influenced. Now look at a woman's possibilities to exercise her will in the reality of our world. All living beings want to exercise their will. She cannot compete with a man physically or mentally. The only opportunity for her is that door that is open to manipulation. This is why women are expert manipulators. It's their only dominion.

The natural way of men to communicate is honestly, because the only reason to communicate with men was for mutual benefit. If the man was a threat, the probability would be that you would try to kill each other.

In the end men realized how to manipulate and became better manipulators than women. In this way they controlled huge armies and empires. They became priests and shamans. Dictators and ideological leaders.

Why do men and women communicate so differently? For a woman language cannot be a tool for collaboration. It is always a weapon, a way of manipulating. For men it's usually different, we communicate to exchange information. That's why you cannot let your guard down with women, they're not here to help. If you say something that in any way can reflect negatively on yourself to a woman she will not understand you at all. This is not how she expects communication to be. While you were trying to be honest, she cannot understand why you would do this. Why wouldn't you try to manipulate her to believe you are high-value? Are you not interested in her sexually?

You will find yourself many times in the situation where the only option is to lie to a woman. And probably she will know you're lying as well. It's extremely frustrating, especially if it's somebody you care for, but it's the way women work and if you don't you'll lose her.

This is what the ancient stories about the garden of Eden are about. Women were the first to realize how to manipulate men, but men came shortly after and with greater cunning. Instead of behaving like animals always acting on instincts that are always logical, we have to constantly weigh any input we receive to determine if it's good or bad, lie or truth. Our war never ends.