I've been meaning to write this for a while, so here goes.

I'm 28 y/o and in my life I have had heaps of one night stands, flings and only 2 LTR's, one that was 2-3 years ago and the current one that I am in now. I'm tall, handsome, and athletic, Genetic gold they say. I discovered the red pill in march, and realized what I have done wrong with my relationships up to that point. There is no going back now.

One night stands

As you get older one night stands get boring, the pump and dump chicks add nothing to your life, they are just human fleshlights you jerk off with. The stories you get are just highfive material for your bros. The part of ONS's I would actually get off from was the chase and the challenge. I didn't give a flying fuck anymore, I would chat up girls get bored with them and move on. It got to the point that my buddies loved going to the bar with me because they would pick up the shrapnel I left behind. I loved going out and playing bar pinball off of every woman that was good looking all the while getting belligerently drunk to see how far I could go before either they wanted me so bad or they got offended and left.

The Online dating scene is a gold mine for people who regularly travel for work as I had, this was Pre-Tinder, my POF account is 7 years old. I missed the Tinder train by a couple months before the LTR I have now, ah well I'm sure my dick would have fallen off by now.

LTRs

My first one was a beta train wreck, I went from a train of sluts being alpha as fuck to a poor excuse of a man. I let her walk all over me, talk me into doing dumb shit, moving, quitting a very good job, paying for everything. As this was my first real relationship I though this is how it is. I was a fucking idiot. Everybody gets one. She did however get me into traveling which was nice. After I left her I worked my ass off and saved every penny. South east Asia is place everyone needs to do young and single. Go with a group because travel groups are full of impressionable young women looking for the fun experiences.

The relationship I'm currently in started off like any other, fucking all the time, so If we weren't naked there was a problem. This was before my knowledge of TRP. In the first month of us hooking up I treated her like any other girl before and was hooking up with a couple other women, I discovered later that this is "plating". She was cool, fun to be around and looking back I gave up commitment extremely fast. I once again fell into the habitual beta fuck friend. I noticed that she treated me differently after that, there were some arguments about dumb shit I wanted about affection and needs. She was getting freaked out and I have no idea why she didn't punch out, I think it was because she was moving for a job and wanted safe dick until she was gone.

DISCOVERY OF THE RED PILL

Holy fuck boys it hit me right in the face like a big RP dick, leaving a mushroom welt on my face. I went through the typical stages of swallowing that big fuckin load of truth. I hated women, I hated me for letting myself act that way and allowing people to treat me like that. This occurred in march and I couldn't blame her for her actions, instead I got my shit together. I didn't break up with her as I wanted to see the results of my changed behavior and actions. It took about 2 weeks for the 180 turn in her behavior. I plated her and started to chat with other chicks as she was still set on moving and I needed to get back on horse as soon as she was gone.

However;

My new behavior started to dictate her actions and her tingles were back. She started to open up and discussed options about not moving away. She started showing me off more, impressed with who I have become. She is happy and I am happy with myself. Right now our relationship should be a model for others in my opinion. I'm learning the balance between beta relationship mode and the constant alpha mode. I'm guiding her and encouraging her to do things that will benefit her and I. I have been showing her some material from RPW for her to better understand what I'm encouraging her to accomplish. The biggest hurdle you have to overcome is how to steer the relationship with the illusion that you are not. This is the best analogy I could find.

Your behavior dictates other peoples behavior.

I now observe every social interaction I possibly can find. The personal relationships I observe have become like a science experiment and I'm collecting my findings. Constantly testing myself out in day to day interactions. These skills are perishable if you do not apply them all the time. Constantly check back with RP literature and take what you need out of it to give you the most benefit to be a leader and a better human. The RP isn't all about fucking all the sluts, It is about molding the world around you with your actions and behaviors. It will take a generation for the social standards to change for the better and we are the pioneers.

I am looking forward for more LTR content on TRP and you should be too. It's nice to know how to spin the plates, but there will come a time where a girl is going to surprise and you'll need to be on your game to keep her around.

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