"Watch what women do, not what they say" is the general phrase around here. I'd go further to say "Watch what everyone does, not what they say".

You'll know who you're real friends and brothers are when serious shit goes down. You will know who cares and who doesn't give one shit because they're more concerned with partying or other frivolous activities.

I believe men & women are fundamentally different. What about the concept of honor between men? This concept is generally defined as a high respect or regard for a men or group of men. You take action or go above and beyond what you were needed to do out of honor because you want your character to be respectable.

Women don't seem to ever understand this. Maybe they never will.