Here at TRP foreign girls get a lot of credit. The real thing is that American culture has a stick up its ass about sexuality. And you know what? You're part of that problem, buddy. Yeah, you. You who are obsessed with who that girl you like is fucking and why she's fucking him. You who talk about "sluts" like they're a bad part of society. Or maybe you toy with the oxymoron of shouting how you'll never get married while at the same time crying about how the "slut" you like is poor marriage material.

Sorry, just had to sound off. I like sluts...they are a commodity to a 30 y/o bachelor like me, for both good times and good feels. I don't want to even call them sluts because I like them so much. Every single one. You might say I have oneitis for my plates, except there's always more than one of them at a given time.

Anyway. Recent immigrants to the US are open about who they want to have sex with. My field report consists of two recent girls, one from OKC and one from Tinder. Compared to their online-dating American counterparts, these girls were the coolest I've met while online dating.

The first is 20 and here from southern Europe for about two years. First phone call, we're talking about sex, and indeed about this very topic, how everyone is so fucking uptight in this country. First meeting, right to her place, fucked all night. She loves being called a slut in bed and likes getting slapped in the face, among other things. No tricks, no deceit, no pretense. Just openness. We've met twice for sex, and haven't spoken in two weeks now. Beautiful.

Second one is 23 and here for some unknown amount of time, from eastern Europe. Still has an accent, speaks pretty well, but is unfamiliar with certain idioms. I'm going to put her at maybe 5 years in the country. She just had fun written all over her. No blow up texts afterwards, no cutesy shit, just an ambiguous plan to get together again in a week or so. She was deliciously submissive both in and out of bed. Sweet girl, really. I so enjoyed her company that I didn't think twice about buying her some alcohol, because I knew doing so would only enhance my night. I told her she owes me, and I'll hold her to that next time. Because I don't give a fuck, there are always more cheap dates.

Allow me now to juxtapose this to the crazy American women I've been talking to. In a word: cougars. This is the direct result of the American stifling of women's sexuality. They spend their lives never trying anything too weird, trying to abide by the normal standards set for them by their boring, frightened men. Men like some of you. Marriage, kids, life. And then what happens?

They turn 40. And. They. Go. Crazy.

I'm fucking a 45 year old southern lady who is married and has a kid. She also has a boyfriend she fucks nights. We only get together to do super kinky stuff. She is the perfect storm because she turned 40 and had her kid at the same time. Talk about a mind fuck.

I started talking to a 40 year old local on OKC who was recently divorced (so recent the husband is living in the house still) who is "coming out of her shell." Another perfect storm maybe, divorce + 40? She was SO itching to meet at a hotel and fuck, openly, without guilt. I had to postpone because shit is getting too crowded and I have exams coming up. Besides, I think one cougar is going to be enough.

My experiences are directed more towards kink, not just sex. I'm not really just looking to stick my dick in a hole. But I don't want a girlfriend or anyone whose feelings are my responsibility or obligation. I want someone adventurous and daring, somewhat audacious. I don't want to put a lot of time and effort because I have other things that I need to focus on. And I don't want to create messes using trickery, because that will just take up more of my time. So if you just want to fuck some girl missionary and every now and then switch to doggy, yeah I guess you can find plenty of young American girls "open" to doing that casually.

Otherwise, the area of ages 25-35 are going to be rife with landmines. I'm talking to one girl my age who I met at a bar. I'm trying to feel her out though my motivation is lacking because neither of us have any place to go and fuck. I'm jumping around different distant sites and she lives with a family member. I haven't yet decided if she's worth a hotel room.

Younger girls are more open because they have less exposure to the American sex poison. I don't know how immune recent immigrants are though. You can find like-minded individuals. Remember that. No deceit necessary.

Stop being so mean. Love your sluts. I mean it. Love, infatuation, oneitis is just oxytocin anyway. Allow yourself to go there for a week, just internally. Don't behave as if you are in love, do nothing to express it, but feel it. Then watch as it quietly subsides. In this way you learn to control your emotions and not act on them. You learn your own internal rhythm. It's beautiful.