Be it royalty, the ruling elite, higher people in society than you (like a manager), or call it whatever you want...

People will seek to own you. People will push ideas on you to own you. They are not invested in your development towards self ownership, and they are often invested in brainwashing you to be a pawn for them (until a cheaper, younger person replaces you).

Words mean a lot, but do not let words own you. Some of these words, depending on the content are ancient passive aggressive sayings meant to keep people stuck in a rut.

People get off on using these words: Like a man, age 35, boast about being self made while making slightly above min wage to his co-worker that still lives with his parents. He drinks every night alone or with house mates (enablers) and shows up to work drunk on Sundays. Soon he'll be couch surfing with friends "friends that are family" in a different state.

Criminals blame other people for their actions "he was asking for it." It is easy to spot a blue piller when they use words like these to boost their ego for a few short glorious seconds.

Two people read Marxist. One reads Marxist and the other understands Marxist. They do not come to the same conclusion.

TL;DR Two people talk. One is hamstering while the other one is unplugging. To describe the chances of them sharing the same fate, one most understand the word entropy.