This last girl l flirted a while ago, I've discovered something or learned from her and here I am to discuss.

At our first date, while she was talking she didn't look at me much first, it was her who initiated this ( let's say she was the one first interested in that thing because I even didn't realize her in the first place). When I noticed that she wasn't looking at me when she spoke, I pretended like l lost interest in subject and tried to change the subject and try to look at her less, after that she somehow changed and looked at me more, I think I made her feel that I am more valuable in this relationship.

Secondly l tried it on another friend of mine who was calling me "bro" (not close friend at all) on whatsapp first, l was the one who wrote her every single day about some shits, grades, lectures and all she wasn't really into it, but she was nice, it was like questions and answers she has a boyfriend btw. Anyway after we graduated l wanted to say goodbye to her, she invited me to her room, and I went but From that time l looked at her as less as possible, and this time I changed the direction of my body, the direction of body were looking to empty spot but hers looking at me(l am not native speaker, I hope you understand what l mean). Before I leave the room I said we won't see each other again farewell, she said text me to meet later but she said it in a way how to say hopeless, and said " no you won't text me, promise me to text me" the thing is l really wasn't expecting this. How and when the fuck I put myself in such a situation. I was calling myself needy, she was too pretty for me. I should have been the one who says " no you won't text me, promise me" but instead she said it. I am not saying that she is interested in me or not but for the first time a girl wantted my attention wanted to talk with me (later). I still sometimes talk with her on Instagram and messenger but l am not able to write her as quick as possible sometimes 8 hours it takes my response hers at most 2 hours still communicating

2 weeks ago we had an bbq party,( l will say it, just because I have never experienced such thing, l was always the one who initiates sth) two girls came to me and asked my name and genuinely interested in what l say, questioned everything ( Don't ever think they came because l was quiet and shy, l am not even close to that thing) and they are relatively beautiful and sexy l wasn't the most handsome guy, not even average. I did the same thing didn't look at them when l speak. (I had never had a close female friend, they always ended up thinking about how do you say " getting hopes up" if a girl wants to talk with a male it is usually considered girl interested in man. That is why girls don't engage in conversation most of the time if they don't have to, l suppose).

And there is one another girl who asks" how are you" only me, in this dormitory we are ten men and this girl only talks with me I don't even really care this girl just because she is taller and fucking cold to everyone except me, she sees me and tries to communicate as soon as she sees me, you can say "man just don't exaggerate it's very normal" but the thing is I have never experienced those things girls tend to run away from me after conversation they expect me to write them talk to them they expect me l will be the one who will initiate the conversation. But this eye contact thing makes a lot different.

Does it have anything with that hypergamy thing like lf l look at them less which will make me more important in those relationships?