So I am of a certain ethnicity, but british. I am very much clued up on red pill, game and stuff. I have always found girls of my ethnicity (lets say were from the mediterranean) to be very sexy, love their style, but above all they are normally quite annoying and high maintenance.

I had never really seen one, or dated one. Then I met one, online infact. We got on like a house on fire. We also had a mutual friend, who knows this girl very well (dating her sister this guy). We ended up talking all the time. She'd initiate all conversation. She'd message me everyday. Sweet and chill stuff. Asking me how my day was, and we'd speak for hours on the phone. Was literally going with flow.

We had 2 dates, in which we obviously kissed and we were sexting almost every night, and then she came over for date 3, and i sealed the deal. Shes a kinky girl.

The week after she insists she takes me out, as i had paid for drinks on the first date, so she took me out, and messaged me she was gna come over on the weekend, for part deux.

All of a sudden friday, as im driving she texts me all this standard girl bullshit "cant do this anymore, cant this that, im emotionally unavailable," bullshit that made no sense. We were seeing eachother (at best!) but like it wasn't serious or anything, just casual, and get this, it was cool. No bullshit, no game, i lead, i banged her, she contacted me, that was that.

So I rashly deleted her off facebook, and she then blanked me for 2 days. We spoke on sunday she was carrying on this whole shit "cant do this, i think i still like my ex" all this bullshit made no sense, that i didnt even bother to contest. I just said "look like talking to you, cant be arsed to even talk about this no more, so forget it" she then readded me on facebook.

At 3am on the sunday (had her xmas party) she messaged me saying my picture was "nice" and liked my photos, and then the next day liked my photos again. Then monday she started talking to me again as if all was good, but i was cold, but she was flirty, sexy and being herself, which is what i liked, but wasnt pushing anything.

Just to intervene, i found out from my friend, that her divorced cynical mother had been planting stuff in her ear after stalking me on facebook. "He's a player (due to pics with girls), he kisses you a lot hes obviously desperate (kino), he always insists you go to nice places (standard bars)" and this mother has never met me. Im hoping that me being a "bad seed" will initially push this girl only closer to me.

Anyway we didnt chat yesterday, im initiating nothing (which i never did) but struggling to know how to play it. Got another date this week with another girl, and going out tomorrow eve, but do i just play it cold, blank her if she messages? Maybe take her out next week? Her actions clearly counter all the shit she was saying and doing which only makes it laughable.

Her ethnicity and like, our culture makes me like her more i have to say, and she did have some amazing qualities and was a decent cool girl. But last few days her actions have just been bizarre. Ideally like to bang her again. And if she apologizes for being a stupid cow, maybe give her another chance.