Prince Charming Theory

Modern women, pretty much those who were born after 1980, are raised from a young age to think relationships and their romantic life will be like a Disney cartoon. From the time they're little girls they've been socialized to expect Prince Charming will come along at some point and sweep them off their feet. Well, the world doesn't work that way. That being said, there's no reason you can't be a woman's "Prince Charming". However, you must first understand that who he truly was isn't what most people would expect. The truth is actually something that goes against the grain of most Disneyesque ideals of romantic love and chivalry. Prince Charming Theory is a combination of essentially two factors:

  • Preselection - An evolutionary shortcut, or tool, humans developed to determine from afar if a person is high value. If others look upon someone favorably we are typically draw to them and/or wonder what makes them valuable. In females this wonder is the preliminary spark of attraction. The effect of preselection, such as having a beautiful woman visibly interested in you, makes it a hell of a lot easier to approach other women, and in some cases women will even approach you!

  • Perceived Value, aka STATUS - This is in regards to when a high value male chooses a woman. The effect this has on women is at the very heart of the Prince Charming Theory: When a high value male with lots of options of romantic partners chooses a particular woman, then she is perceived as the female with the most value of any of those he could have chosen from. This makes a woman feel special and has the benefit of making her value, cherish, and respect the relationship so much more than if she merely chose the man or settled for a man of low value. This is intrinsically different from the traditional paradigm of women choosing men and is why women will often chase a man, or otherwise tolerate abuse or otherwise bad treatment, by men that seem disinterested or that have 3 other women on speed dial.

I don't generally agree with Disneyesque ideals of romance, or any relationship advice given by mainstream media as it's usually terrible and chock full of social programming. But when it comes to Prince Charming, he was the ultimate version of what men should strive to be if they want to be empowered and in control of their romantic lives. Prince Charming was highly preselected, had options, and he chose the women he wished to interact with. Furthermore, those women who he chose felt special because he chose them. That's the secret sauce of Prince Charming Theory and why status is king.

Note: when you reach that point in life when you are perceived to be a high status male with options, it's important that you qualify women as it is integral to keeping them. If not, they will have worthiness issues and all sorts of relationship issues may result from the women's insecurities.