Motivations for using dating apps

RisingUpAgain · 2019-11-22T04:35:53+00:00

What are you doing with your time in your life that you’re proud of?

SuburbanMemer · 2019-11-22T05:38:39+00:00

I’ll offer a perspective on what you referred to as “training yourself” as well as some insight on dating apps. You didn’t mention your age but I’ll say that I’m 25 and still in college so that those reading this can use me as a benchmark they can either exceed, work toward, or try to imitate.

You need to accept that happiness requires struggle. Acceptance and engagement in the negative experience is key to success. This means you should not avoid the things you aren’t ready for. Training your skills requires real practice so just accept that you need to do your best to learn and focus on getting better. If you truly have that as your goal your are almost guaranteed success. It also lets you not give a fuck about other people because it’s all about you getting better.

Here’s an idea that anyone can put to use TRY to get one percent better everyday,if you do that for a year you will be five times better than you are right now. Obviously you can become more that 1 percent better at a given thing in a day. THATS GREAT, now you see how quickly you can become amazing at something. Whatever that thing is.

At the end of the day your self esteem is determined by external gratification and that external gratification is amplified when you know you worked hard. Look up the term self-efficacy and work on your self-efficacy.

Let’s talk about dating apps. Tinder and bumble are perfect for practice. But to have fun on dating apps you have to have the tools to play. That’s means good pictures. This was a road block for me for along time until I asked a girl who was not that hot to go out and take pictures of me in a bunch of different outfits. We have done this maybe a dozen times at probably 35 locations trying to make make look good so again EMBRACE THE PROCESS OF SHITTY PHOTO SESSIONS WITH THE UGLY GIRL BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU ARE GETTING BETTER, GETTING BETTER SHOULD DRIVE YOU ALL DAY EVERYDAY.

Once you have 4 pictures you are honestly proud of it’s time to start slaying chicks. Grab tinder+ for 6 bucks and start having tinder pimp send bitches your way. Boost yourself on the second or third day, there’s no point in boosting before that because new accounts get priority.

If you need confidence try to bang as many girls you can in a month. I upped my body count by 12 in 2 months! It did wonders for my confidence. Here’s some tips!

In my experience matches are far more likely to reply if you message them as soon as you match. If you like the girl do yourself a favor and say hi the day she matches with you.
Do yourself another favor and do not overswipe. Tinder has an ELO which you nerds know about. So hoard you likes with your best photos and only swipe on girls you would love to fuck.
I’ve gotten lots of dates and hookups off super liking girls than anything else, including a 2.5yr LTR with a premed and Chinese major at a wonderful university here in the northeast. It’s a way of easily provoking emotion. Say you didn’t mean to superlike her but you definitely mean to like her. Tell her you just had to talk to her then tell her you were being sarcastic.

Title	Motivations for using dating apps
Author	DoneScannedIt
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Date	November 22, 2019 4:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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