TLDR: Acknowledging your needs/alertring the girl to your beta tendencies may make you alpha by owning them. You call attention to the "problem" just like Mr. Charles (Inception)

After going through my abysmal downturn with one of the most spectacular girls you'll find...I found someone similar.

This girl..i guess you could say qualifies as a red pill woman versus my ex who was truly a damaged woman. I say they are similar due to their "real" personalities. Difference being my ex hides her dark past, this girl chose to not have one. This new girl basically regurgitated the sidebar. She understands that she has to live with herself everyday and does not want to have the same rights as a man and acknowledges women were never meant to be leaders.

I have come to understand the rough and gruff demeanor of these women - they like to be challenged even more than normal. Being sensitive to being jerked around by my ex. When this new girl got wishy washy, it is a bit of a trigger (I'm tireddddd. I'm confussed). Perhaps I over reacted and I acknowledged it after the fact (I did, just take my word). Instead of textbook TRP, I decided to try something. I ackowledged the problem. I said I had seen this before. That my ex did the same thing. I then said that she would call me out for comparing her to my ex and use that as an excuse to cut ties to me (I took away her playbook). She started to call me crazy and stuff.

The conversation continues.She says I'm acting like a girl and don't know what I want. I spell it out exactly what I want. She hamsters. I double down - I go full beta and say that she is interesting to me and want to learn about her.

Silence for a half hour.

She comes back saying she finds me very sexy and feels insecure because she thinks that I am above her.

The conversation escalates from there.

Lessons: Real women exist and as long as you are real and own the moment, you can win.