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My possible Blue Pill Existence. Please help.

Sthrn_Gent-23

February 17, 2017

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Title	My possible Blue Pill Existence. Please help.
Author	Sthrn_Gent-23
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	February 17, 2017 4:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5un54p/my_possible_blue_pill_existence_please_help/
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Comments

[–]Senior Endorsed Contributormax_peenor18 points19 points20 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Sthrn_Gent-231 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]RubyOrchid133 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Read the sidebar. All of your questions are answered in great depth. Anyways, the problem is, you are still wanting the easy answer. The problem there is, an easy answer doesn't exist. You wanted to come here, ask your question, and get some magic advice that fixes everything. It simply doesn't work like that. Are you lifting? You didn't mention that you are. If you aren't, that's step one. Go on a strength training linear progression program. You're wrong that plutonic friendships exist between genders. Generally, one of the people involved wants more than a friendship. You even contradicted yourself on that topic. You say plutonic friendships like that exist, but whenever you get to that point with a woman, you end up with feelings. You are friendzoning yourself, and then wondering why you are in the friendzone. It's because these women aren't seeing you as a sexual being, but rather a simple source to use for validation when Chad isn't around. They don't see you as a sexual being because you arent doing anything to make them see you that way. Action, in this case, lifting and dressing nice, equals reaction, having more women want to sleep with you. If you are out of shape and fat, and not willing to do anything to fix it, you might as well just get use to a lifetime absent of sex and attraction from women. At least until you turn 30-40 and can be some whores beta provider.

Ask yourself this question. What am I doing to make these women notice and like me? If it is nothing, there's the answer. You are putting the horse in front of the carriage so to speak. Worry about you first, make money, get in shape, dress nice, and be social. After you do that, it just comes with the territory. You're either out of shape, suck at being social with people, are so thirsty women find it creepy, or dress like shit. If you do those things, women notice. Seriously, ask yourself that question. What am I actively doing to make women notice me?

[–]Sir_Ganjas_VIII2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link