Field report from yesterday.
I got invited to a bar by a group I met some time ago, I did not plan to game and mostly went to have fun and get to know my new co-worker. After a while in the bar I noticed a beautiful exotic girl approaching the group, I did not know her but she knew the group. She greeted another girl with a kiss and a hug, I asked jokingly wheres my kiss and surprisingly she came to me and tried to give me a kiss on the lips, but I decided to tease her and turned it to a kiss on the cheek and a hug, group laughed and the girl acted offended while laughing. Seems like I am going to game tonight, huh.
I did not talk to the girl exclusively, it was a bit hard in the group as I was enjoying my time with others too. I kept playfully teasing her about her language problems and eventually she couldnt start talking to me without mild laugh and smile when I grinned at her mistakes. She was interested about my silly looking necklace, I reminded her where my eyes are and her and group reaction was same as with the kiss. At some point I gave her a sort of nickname "special", I teased by using it as both bad and good thing and also her friends started to get intrigued what did I really think of her.
Later on I went alone to get a drink for myself, almost immediately the girl came and playfully slapped the back of my head with a wet hand while she was going to ladies room. Acting offended I demanded her to help me pick a drink for me when she came back. While browsing the menu she started talking how she does not understand why am I being like this, usually guys tell her she is cute and buy her drinks. Wow, okay so I know I am new to this thing but I already recognized the last part to be true gold to my ears. This made my evening and I didnt really care what happened from this point forward. I told her that it might be because I have not made a decision what I think about her, that she seems "special", but also a bit boring. She was genuinely surprised by this and started qualifying hardcore. After she told me being top contenders in a dance competition in her country I teased if it was twerking or folkdance, my god I have never got so many playful hits on my arms. She acted (and probably was a bit) offended and went back to the group, this is where my big fail came. I didnt do anything, I followed her back to the group.
It was getting late and I had early shift so I left, didnt bother to ask her number.
I am really glad about my success, these are huge leaps in very short time for me. But still I would like to hear your opinion what I should have done differently? I believe the key moment was when she left the bar area and I should have hugged her or something to give her a bit acceptance or something as I was teasing her all night long.
Btw, she did mention to have a boyfriend, but also never failed to mention that he lives far away. I didnt acknowledge or talk anything about the boyfriend, she seemed to be fine with it, I am not advanced enough to do anything else really.
TL;DR: Went to a bar to have fun with new friends, got a hot chick really interested about me and failed to seize the right moment to move from playful physical contact to more sexual contact.
And again, any feedback (the actual events, text format, my writing style, anything) is appreciated, especially if there is something you do not like.
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