This is me adding my two cents on life.

  1. The most important person in your life is yourself (unless you have children). The smash and dash method is not the way if said woman gets pregnant.

Don't be the guy that's too nice, and willing to drop your own personal needs to satisfy other people. Example: You're doing something maybe it's homework and your friend wants to hang out and waste time, or the skeet date want to have a skeet date. That's not the definition of being a good friend/skeet date, that's being a big foig (see Asian Gangster). Put yourself first, do your business first and then other things and plus, no one likes a person who is always available. This goes for friends and plates. Put yourself first demand respect from your group of friends. I'm speaking from experience, assert yourself and people will respect you more. The bottom line is value your time and respect yourself, then people around you will have more respect for you.

DO NOT let women be the center of your life, living your whole life for women and that being your only priority. You will end up being that guy that has no value, no talent, and boring, always referring to the days when you had what you call a life. You know those guys who always brag about how many women they smash. "Last spring break I was smashing vag like the hulk." Don't be him. Learn how to do something besides been good at google-ing porn too for all the virgins out there. Just because you're good at programming or calculus, doesn't make you Johnny Goldenshaft, just like women you're not entitled to a nice wholesome woman because you think of yourself as a good "catch."

  1. Chivalry should have been pronounced dead years ago.

Don't be that guy who will damn near break his neck to hold a door for a woman, this level of behavior is reserved for the lower tier of men. You shouldn't strive to be a asshole but overly nice behavior is not the way to go. Acquire this mindset, she is not entitled to anything, let her earn you in the same way that you trying to earn her.