I'm on my phone so I apologize for this being less detailed and grammatically correct than it can be.

Ok guys, I just recently started taking the red pill, and I'm trying to make some huge changes in my life. So here's who I am and I need advice on how to handle something's in a better way.

Most of my life, for various reasons I've been a beta, and I didn't find too much of a problem with it. Right around when I turned 21, I for about 6 months was pretty damn alpha while still doing some stupid things that were traces of my beta past. Got into a relationship, got horribly beta over over the next year and a half, and eventually got ditched seemingly because of it. I was a train wreck for a few weeks....then I looked at myself and thought what the hell am I doing.

So now, I'm a month out of a breakup and have picked myself up pretty damn well, lost about 35 pounds(still dropping) and regained a lot of the cool shit about myself that made me alpha. I'm doing fantastically....and now my ex can see that.

She's asking me to hang out. We did once early in the week, I was my alphaish new self and controlled the night. She was definitely surprised at this. I'm wondering how do I continue this. I don't want another relationship at all. I'm 22 and working on building a career in what are two crazy hard industries, there's no time for that bullshit. BUT what I do what is her to want me back like a mother fucker. So how do I go about treating her really. I was way too nice to her in the past near the end of the relationship, doing things for her, buying things. I martyred myself for her and couldn't understand WTF was happening when she split with me.... but now I can look back pretty clearly especially while reading the red pill. I definitely think she is the type of girl to respond to being treated as this subreddit talks about.

Also....train of exes....I've been hanging out a bit with an ex of 2 years ago. Incredibly beautiful and awesome to be around. After not talking for my entire other relationship and just hitting her up outta the blue, she obviously still really digs me. She has another dude she had been casually seeing before me, and she hasn't told him she's talking to me at all. She tries to hide her attraction to me and distance herself but its really obvious. I know what I want from her, same I want from my other ex, her to want me. She's my age, the newest ex two years younger.

So from all this, how do I deal with these girls. What is the alpha things to do, I don't want to just act like an alpha, I want to be one again and take it even farther than I did before. (I'm also meeting other girls which has been helping build myself back up)

If more info is required ill gladly provide it. Thanks guys.