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Dylan_Tnga

June 9, 2015
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Title New to RedPill
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Dylan_Tnga

Upvotes 2
Comments 7
Date June 9, 2015 1:57 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
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TRP mentioned quite a bit in the "worst subreddit" thread. Lots of cringe-tastic BP comments.

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[–]huzaifa961 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Word of advice: Don't stay or get bitter. The weight training and grooming advice should help you get better. But it's so easy to be tempted into the toxic mindset of bitterness and complaints. It's like masturbation.

Sex for its own sake is basically useless. You are a man. It's your responsibility. I don't know your story, but if you were a sucker for the woman, you must develop a stronger will. Being taken advantage of doesn't mean you get to spread your ineptitude.

[–]Dylan_Tnga[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Oh I agree whole-heartedly. I'm not here to justify my bitterness as I don't have any left. I am grateful to have an ex wife that actually takes care of my children if anything.

I'm more looking to learn about being a bit more "alpha" in situations, as I have a natural tendancy to be submissive... Have improved a lot though. Like I said, ever since I stopped really caring what girls think I find myself more confident in how I speak to them and I don't 2nd guess myself or try to say things to sound cool... just trying to be myself.

[–]huzaifa96-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Hmm...don't care what they think, being myself.

Sounds very blue pill...

Keep in mind that "alpha" anyway, is not a jerk mentality. It is literally just being in control. Lift weights, concentrate on important things so you don't have to stress over details, work physically, your testosterone will rise.

Don't be an independent, alpha MGTOW who don't need... I'm not going to finish that.

But you do see a parallel. In both feminist and forever alone male, you see this ideal "style" a pretense, without any substantial backing. YOu can't lead without testosterone; it's not a case of "Fake it till you make it"

[–]Dylan_Tnga[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Pretty sound advice. One thing I have going for me is self confidence, I don't get shy or back off to avoid confrontation.

"Don't be an independent, alpha MGTOW who don't need... I'm not going to finish that. "

I struggle with that at times, and find myself making friends with girls instead of being assertive and asking them out when I'm interested, on purpose just to avoid the possibility of being in a relationship.. and I agree that this is counter-intuitive to what I want.

[–]huzaifa960 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

gle with that at times, and find myself making friends with girls instead of being assertive and asking them out when I'm interested, on purpose just to avoid the possibility of being in a relationship.. and I agree that this is counter-intuitive to wh

You do know, I was referring to the black girl and feminist "independence" BS, right?

The anger and jealousy towards a perceived superior? "I don't need you!"

TRP is full of these guys as well. Fake "alpha" males. They are in the 2nd stage of grieving, apparently. There's a thread somewhere about this.

My point is, don't put on a jackass persona (when feminist women do this, it's called "independence", most folks just say "Bitch") and do ridiculous things with the intention of getting laid. Be yourself in public, but more guarded, measured voice, and cautious. The biggest thing is what you do in your time.

[–]Dylan_Tnga[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I've lurked here a bit, and although i do like the general tone of TRP... at least 60% if not more of the posters here have no idea how to be alpha and are as you said in their first or second stage of grieving... thinking that being evil / sociopathic / msyogonstic = Alpha...

I think I'm actually on the right path, as I mentioned in OP, it's been 4 years since my "divorce" (we had kids but never tied the knot) so I've already gone through the "I DONT NEED NO MAN" phase, and the jackass phase.

I'm growing as a person. I truly believe that Alpha has nothing to do with being negative and everything to do with being a leader and uplifting other people with a positive mindset... All the while being cautious or guarded as you had put it, so that you don't end up being taken advantage of. I will not be venturing into "nice guy" teritory but yes I do try to avoid being an asshole to women just because of my own negative experiences... that's for pussies.

I think it's MY FAULT that I was dominated so badly by my ex, and moving forward I plan to put my foot down right away with women and not allow them to gain control of me, simultaneously I have no desire to "own" or to control another human being either.

[–]huzaifa960 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good attitude. to be honest, I've been around the Manosphere block the last couple years, but haven't frequented this sub-Reddit till a week or so ago.

Look forward to it. See you around.

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