Who among us really didn’t know what we’ve learned? You’re in high school and you notice that the guys with all the girls are jocks or in a band. All you want is a pretty girl. Her social status doesn’t matter.

I’m much older now but I still remember that moment in high school when three girls came after me at once. Why all three? I figured it out. One liked me so the others started to look. They became competitive among themselves. Years went on. I became noted in my profession. Let’s call my profession ‘real estate.’ On at least five occasions I’ve had women literally throw themselves at me for a particular reason. During pillow talk I discovered why. Their boyfriends/husbands or other males close to them held me in some kind of awe because of my professional accomplishments and standing. In one case, I actually saw the conversation happen. I ended up having multi-month, wild sex-drenched STR with her and it all hinged on that moment. It was something much more than social proof, it was another man noting my value. Not casually, but in a deep appreciative way.

As you read this you might be thinking “Okay, I’m never going to do that, I’m never going to talk up another man up in front of a woman” but if you have abundance it's okay, it's positive.

I like accomplishment. There are people in this world that I talk up out of deep respect. They’ve contributed something and they deserve it. Before I was conscious of this dynamic, I would note the value of other men like that in conversations, sometimes even with an STR or an LTR. I don’t think I’ve ever lost a woman that way, but now I’m more conscious about when I do it. If I’m out with people, I know that I can do it with women I’m not currently interested in. My valuation of other men can have an impact. If you lend valuation to another man, he might get laid or getting in a position where he gets female attention more often. It’s like a tip jar for rewarding value in the world. We have have it at our disposal and they more value we have, the higher the tips we can give and the greater the influence.

The 'recently unplugged' look at the feminine imperative and the direction of society and they feel helpless. Hypergamy is cruel but it’s not something that women control completely. Women look for valuation cues from men. We have a finely tuned sense of value. We dig in and learn what works. We know what is worthy of our respect. It influences the women around us. I don’t think it’s saying too much to say that we can change the world this way.

Call it an 'Alpha Engine.' It’s the replacement for the collapsed 'Beta Engine' that we see in the 'Open Hypergamy' Era. Pay attention to who you are inclined to praise. Make choices. Take the reins of society.