Everyday, I mingle with guys who have girls literally throwing themselves at them. Unfortunately, they can't handle it like a normal man would. They cockblock themselves, I swear. I'm sure there's a natural progression for this kind of stuff.

  • Guy shows interest, hangs out with girl. Girl not really knowing guy either shows no interest and treats him like any other guy she just met, or thinks he has "potential" and will start her game to keep him interested, e.g., she talks/texts messages him often. In the first case, the guy already lost for whatever arbitrary reason - but in the second case its the fucking betas who are literally too nice to escalate things further.

  • Now girl finds guy "attractive" for whatever reason, frankly doesn't matter why, but she does. It's his turn to turn up his game and seal the deal. This is the faulting point for many oblivious boys - they simply never escalate. Women love to be controlled, so long as they're aware. Sadly, the girl gets bored or frustrated with the guy not taking her hints, and her initial impression and tingles turn stagnant. She needs constant tingles to find you attractive and care about anything you say. Don't play hard to get - that's her role.

  • The few men who get this far have girls trying everything to get them to reciprocate feelings. The women force sexual encounters, some times the guy freaks out from her behavior, which comes off as "abrupt" and "desperate". More often, though, the guy finally caves and fucks her, feeling relieved she did the hard part for the relationship. But guess what? Instant tingle kill. All that pent up frustration disappears once she's fucked you and come to her senses about how much of a loser you are. She nexts you like the plague. Then you're back to square one being an AFC. Oh well.

But, if you decide to take the leap of faith, and face the absurdity which holds you back as it did Kierkegaard, you'll no longer fear or tremble (or care) what woman and wider society think about you and your actions. When you become your own man, little will distract your focus away from what really matters. Your self-awareness of reality will guide you, rather than the brainwash broadcasted to you daily. If you don't participate within the system, then how can it control your actions? Who wants to exist in a world where only the "correct" views are the only ones you must live by?

/rant