Ok, i need your help on something important...

[deleted] · 2014-10-19T23:08:17+00:00

I'll say it. Next.

Christ, you're 23. Enjoy time with another girl. There are plenty out there.

[deleted] · 2014-10-19T22:44:47+00:00

Just move on. 2 weeks is easy to stop, drop and roll. Seriously, just move on. You may not know what her angle is, but there's an angle. I'd imagine it's some sort of preemptive psychological ploy to convince you that she's pure and not hypergamous, which confirms that she is.

If she can convince you of this bullshit, then she can get a read on your sucker meter. She's just surveying you and trying to figure out to what extent she can sneak around.

Women are engineered to survey the field, and figure out the parameters of their manipulative behaviors. Then they'll know to what extent they can self-serve.

mchlyxhn · 2014-10-20T00:17:07+00:00

My gf just told me she wants to wait til marriage before she has sex with me. Problem is, 2 weeks before we met she had fucked some random guy she met through a hook up app.

What the fuck? No,man. Abort mission. She just said she won't have sex with you,until you're fucking married to her(?!), but has no problem fucking a total stranger. That's how little she's attracted to you and has regard for you.

She is 18 and I'm 23. So she can be immature sometimes.

She's not immature. Immature people don't know what they're doing. She knows exactly what she's doing, playing you.

I like her and enjoy spending time with her. I told her the longest I'm willing to go without any type of sex is 3 months. I'm not gonna wait til marriage nor am I gonna rush myself into one either just for sex. I told her this and then broke up with her. Now she's telling she doesn't want to break up and that we can wait the 3 months and then decide if she's ready for sex.

You shouldn't have given her such a long deadline. She needs 3 months to mentally prepare herself for sex with you? Fuck that noise. She tried to check raise you, and you called her bluff. Now she's trying to get her chips back from the dealer. It's all horse shit and you need to see through all of it.

I told her I needed time to think and came here for advice. This all happened within the last hour. I don't have any other girls lined up. I super fucking shy and have very little game. Us getting together was not something I saw coming. I feel like she should of told me this in the beginning but didn't. She just now brought this up now. I have very little relationship experience. What should I do

She didn't tell you from the beginning because she was laying down the honey trap.

Look, if you can land a girl that attractive, then you can land another girl that's just as attractive. Churn and burn, man. She's not worth your time and especially not worth marrying. By the way, what psycho 18-year-old talks about getting married to a guy she's been seeing(I say seeing, not dating or fucking) for 2 weeks? You got your best pipe laying years ahead of you,man. Don't waste it by locking yourself into a sexless relationship, because it doesn't seem like she's going to stay faithful anyway.

CallMeMak · 2014-10-19T22:45:52+00:00

This really should have been posted on asktrp but you're still playing in her ballpark playing beta if you're willing to wait three months AND THEN think about. Dread game her and don't give in. Just yesterday I fucked a girl that said she was waiting until marriage to have sex and look what happened. If you haven't already, read up on the sidebar material and suggested reading.

[deleted] · 2014-10-20T00:54:33+00:00

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markasstrick123 · 2014-10-20T03:32:07+00:00

She doesn't find you sexually attractive, that's the truth. Women immediately sleep with guys they perceive to be alpha. Keep improving yourself and in the meantime, see other women. Since your current girl wants to use you and make you her beta bucks, use her right back. Use her for social proof.

TomHicks · 2014-10-20T03:37:32+00:00

She ain't your girlfriend mate. NEXT

g4zda · 2014-10-20T04:53:32+00:00

You're considering giving her 3 months to manipulate you. Not a good idea seeing that it took you less than 2 weeks to get you to consider such a bullshit deal.

I'd bet you're going to hear a lot of "I want to wait because I care about you"s.

What you should've said is "If you don't like me than you shouldn't date me." and get the hell out of that one. And another bet is that she doesn't know the guy's name.

Title	Ok, i need your help on something important...
Author	Virtusvitium
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	October 19, 2014 10:36 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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