A problem that I and many other younger (beta) high school aged subscribers is that we have this very structured interaction with girls. We come into class and see this girl we like, and thus begins the dance (no point in me telling you all of this bullshit, you already know it.)

Then we begin to break out of this shell and enter the pre-rp stage. At the moment I'm seeing PUA shit like RSD and beta 17 year old me is watching Owen and his gang (who are all average in the looks department and not necessarily stunning) Meeting these women and within minutes are making out with them, getting them to make out with other very attractive women, and are walking out the door with them; with seemingly little work.

I think my problem, and young men my age too, is that while we are improving ourselves, be it learning basic fashion, hygiene, lifting, basic RP social tenets, is that we cannot get this "high school innocent long courting process" that has been so heavily ingrained into our minds from childhood, out of our fucking heads.

I do not have a problem with girls liking me. They have; and I'm talking pretty girls too, and many a time I have been too awkward or self conscious to really take it to the next lvl. Now my problem has changed from awkwardness and fear of rejection, to really getting into the mindset that these girls are not as innocent as I once thought, that the slow dance that we were seemingly forced to do in HS is over now, and that if I can get my shit together we can all start to have a little more fun.

Men of RP, what is you're advice?