I've been following TRP for over 3 years now and actively commenting for about 2 years. I however don't post often. Today I wanted to give a different perspective of a FR on basic game and frame. I'll also go into a little bit of my mindset to understand specific actions without making this too long.

 

Today my sister and I went to Panera and as I walked in I saw a very pretty girl behind the register. I'd say a 7 but small and petite with blond hair about an half inch long. When we got to the register I complimented her hair (beginners do not do this) and asked to see it and she said no (and that's why beginners). I smiled, stepped back in a sarcastic shock "Well do you boo boo". She apologized and said she's sensitive about her hair and it's a part of her Panama/Trinidad culture while giving me a shy smile. My sister began ordering her food and mentioned she was vegan and ended the sentence with "my brother isn't vegan tho". Big sis with the assist on the way to the hoop!

 

After we both completed our order my sister asked for a water cup but I didn't (you will see why). As I walked away, the cashier caught a glimpse of my MMA hoodie with an elephant on the back and apologized again about the hair and said that she really liked my hoodie. I responded "thanks" with my back turned and tossed up a peace sign. Exactly halfway through my meal I got up and returned to the register. "You know what? I'll take that water cup after all." She hands me the cup and I turn half from her only starting to walk away. I asks if she considers herself a busy person (this is to pre gauge any shit test I will run in to. If you're getting things like "oh I go to school" or "I work 99 hours a week", kill those shit test way before hand). She said she isn't too busy so I hand her my phone and tell her I'm sure we could find things to do. She put her number in my phone and handed it back and I smiled, winked and walked away. She yelled "Have a nice day!" and once again with my back turned, I tossed up one final peace sign and went back to my sister.

 

None of this was planned, and I didn't go out to eat with the intention of gaming anyone. Had my sister not said I was her brother I probably wouldn't even had done it. Also her second apology was a cute IOI so I said what the hell. I set a reminder in my phone to go off in a week because I hardly keep track of this shit and if I didn't set the alarm, I'd look up 7 months from now asking myself who the fuck this contact in my phone is.

 

The purpose of this post is twofold. One, TRP works if YOU work at it. There is no other way around it. And two, stop stressing about approaching and gaming. If you are attractive, women will let you know, you just have to learn how to read between the lines and not fuck it up. Less is more in almost any situation. I knew she would give me her number but if for whatever reason she didn't, it's fine with me. "Do you boo boo."

Final note to remember: "These bitches ain't shit but a brick through ya windshield."