With just two months left before the start yet another new year now is the time for reflection and deeper understanding. Most people have new years resolutions that are akin to "I don't wanna do all the shit I know I shouldn't have been doing but did a lot anyway this year." Whether that be in regards to gym attendance, diet, fapping, whatever, these are the resolutions that usually never materialize past February. There has been a massive influx of men to this sub, so much to the point it might actually be a problem as it has forced this sub to stagnate on the basics of game.

But no matter how long you have been lurking and/or participating hopefully you have learned something about sexual dynamics and intersexual communication, specifically in regards to dating and seduction. With this new found knowledge I hope you have gone out into the world and experimented with these theories and developed your own personal game based on the outcomes. I also know the common TRP welcome of "Fuck you, go lift and read the fucking sidebar". Well for all you about to be newly minted 1yr bros I have a message for you.

Go fucking read the sidebar again.

Not because I don't think you got it all the first time, but because I know you didn't, you couldn't have. You didn't have the experience necessary to fully grasp it all. Books like The Rational Male(which I am re reading at the moment and prompted this post) hold information that requires experience via trial and error to understand. So I say find the time now, before the holiday season of family bullshit and the general chaos that comes with it, to re read the sidebar and suggested books. See how you react and what you pick up now with some experience under your belt. Go into the holiday season and the new year with a better understanding of game, masculinity, and the sexual market place.

For those of you just joining our little corner of the internet. "Fuck you, go lift and read the fucking sidebar". Then go explore the world with your new eyes. Experience women, hypergamy, AFC's hating, and all the other things you read about and probably deny. Do that so that in 1 years time you can sit down, reflect, and begin to truly understand the wisdom these books and posts hold.