Made a new account to post this.

I was watching Bachelor in Paradise tonight (judge me fuck you it's actually one big RP experiment) and one of the girls was 50/50 about one of the guys. He's a pretty jacked dude and physically alpha, but was being somewhat "heart on the sleeve" to her. And that turned her off. She was really unsure about him.

They went on their "fantasy suite" overnight, and at dinner she said "you know you're not getting laid tonight."

Of course, they did have sex. And what happened? She ended up crazy about him. Totally in love with him now. And she made a mention about being sore. The next morning she couldn't keep her hands off of him.

On the 100% flipside, another couple went to the fantasy suite, and he (very alpha in general) denied her. She told him the next day she tried to unbutton his pants and he stopped her. She took this as not being liked, so she dumped him. (Can you imagine if the genders were reversed on this one?) She wanted sex and he was too polite or dumb to give it to her. He got beta in the bedroom and that was that.

Gentleman, people here ask about how to keep a plate coming back. It's been said, and I'll say it again. Fuck her like she wants to be fucked. Be the animal in the bedroom. She wants it. I tell you this from my observations from this show as well as my own experiences on which I'm happy to elaborate should you want.

TL;DR - Fuck her well and good and she'll want you more than she even thought she could.