The Masculine and the Feminine are complementary opposites. We need the innocence and beauty of some women to get out of the problems of the world. Women need us to survive in this harsh world. They ask for our protection and hardness, we ask for their innocence and overall beauty.

This is why we need Polarization. How do you develop it? With healthy masculine characteristics.

You get as strong as you can get: physically and mentally. Yes, this includes emotional toughness (which, btw, is not synonym with stupidity or retardation). You're active. Not desperate-active, but healthy-active. Like a man interested in the world, preoccupied with leaving his mark for the future, whatever that may be.

You know that sexual gratification is not the only form of gratification. Women are great and all, but you don't sell your life for vagina. You don't become a human doormat for any woman, because your life is bigger than that.

And that helps polarize women. Your potential of being masculine is your potential for long-term security and women are attracted to it. The more you pretend to be their little goody psychologist friend and accept of being treated like a child, the more you remain depolarized. Yes, women might need psychologists, but remember that a woman's greatest fear is mostly related to the absence of the sense of security. Be a man and provide that for women through your very own character. Some women will flock to you and a few might scorn you because you're not obsessed with childish notions of equality. This is all fine because most women that flock to you will be of the feminine kind and they'll work to complement your hardness.

Where you are strong and active in the world, they'll seek to bring relaxation and peace. Where you maintain frame and work for the future, they'll work to welcome you in their innocence... if they know how to preserve it, of course.

Maintain a masculine polarity as often as you can. Do stuff and be active in the world.