Rethinking everything, could use some advice (attn redpillschool)

redpillschool · 2013-03-11T14:16:46+00:00

I see where you're coming from. I've definitely burned out pretty hard from approaches a few times in the past few years. It takes a heck of a lot of work, with very little return on investment.

It seems like you approach ten times more girls than what it's worth. It almost seems like it's not worth the effort.

But you want to get laid.

Here's the problem women set themselves up for.

By acting like they do, and making me go through all the legwork to find mates and hookup, I no longer care much about any individual one. I couldn't give half a shit about any particular one. Which means, if any of these chicks think they'd eventually like to settle down with a guy they find attractive (like me) they've got something else coming..

How do you solve this? Well, you already solved it in your post. Keep friends with benefits. I recommend for sanity's sake keeping at least two going. Keeps it fresh.

[deleted] · 2013-03-11T05:34:15+00:00

My general "game plan" is to hit parties, snatch lots of numbers, line them up on dates, seduce, rinse and repeat.

This works well in Japan though, because there are plenty of locations for a private enough dating atmosphere to where you can escalate and close while still at the first venue. All you need to do is have enough SMV / attraction to get them on that first date. (I've heard in some shittier locations you basically have to SNL the chick or next her)

A lot of girls have their guard up when being day gamed, so while there are a plethora of targets, they are much more likely to lead to nothing, which is why I usually don't even bother going for chicks outside of social settings.

With this method, you can snatch pretty good results, upwards of 10 new chicks in bed each month (I've done the math), and that's with me going out 2-3 times a month to grab numbers and 3-4 dates per week or so with new chicks. If you combine this with a little bit of net game, you'll be so busy you won't know what to do ~

VZPurp · 2013-03-11T01:30:11+00:00

There is no royal road to geometry. I mean pussy.

dmahan · 2013-03-11T02:27:26+00:00

An easier option is to meet girls through mutual friends at house parties.

For the second, how did you go about getting the girls in bed? I go with "Hey" small talk "Why don't you warm my bed tonight", and I've always gained a booty call from it if I wanted one when it worked.

chikinpickle · 2013-03-11T02:52:27+00:00

One way of looking at it is like an investment. Spin the plates so you have a lot going on, they introduce you to friends, you befriend them (but do not waste your time or appease that shit). Soon you can start taking the interest that those relationships throw off in the form of parties and girls who want a guy, which is when your investments make free returns with no more need to put time into it.

Self improvement is where it's at...you shouldn't have to ever be the one who goes after them, after a certain amount of practice, they'll throw themselves at you, but you'll be too busy on your own more satisfying endeavors to give them the satisfaction of knowing they 'got you locked down.

Just keep reading, that's what I'm doing.

nekrawulf · 2013-03-11T06:31:31+00:00

Use some of these girls as "anchor" chicks to network their friends. Recruit a dedicated wingman to assist the gaming. Long term gaming always trumps short ter f-close attempts

DragonSen · 2013-03-11T01:43:31+00:00

You have no game plan. Go to festivals or conventions, don't just wander aimlessly on the streets. Random girls on the street are harder to approach.

Seems like you're too desperate for the snatch bro. Overly pushing for sex just reeks of desperation and I think the girls can smell it on you. Do you work out? You need to lift more weights and lift less of your dick in front of women.

SequencingLife · 2013-03-11T02:50:47+00:00

I'm incel, but this is what works from what I've seen.

1) Be extremely attractive. Male model like attractive. Preferably built like a tank measuring 6'1 and with a extremely masculine face that exudes testosterone.

2) Dopamine drug dealer. Help them get high off your presence or what you say. Let them create the attraction to you because of how they "feel" when they are close.

Title	Rethinking everything, could use some advice (attn redpillschool)
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Date	March 11, 2013 1:16 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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