After my divorce, I had to move. A friend had an empty room since his other bud was moving, so I moved in here. Turns out he has a very hot girlfriend, and she has been digging on me. I won't go into details, but suffice it to say she has been trying hard to hide it. In my younger days, I was the guy who my friends and even my sister warned females about. 'He will hit on you' was the mantra. Lots of the chicks my friends orbited liked me enough to fuck me, so its not new.

However what I learned back then is the effect it has when I fuck some chick my bud likes. I'd rather not do that because after my last marriage I have few friends around here, mostly because its 1000 miles from where I grew up. So I don't want to me her interested.

After extensive reading here and the sidebar, I know how to stay friends, not be an orbiter, and get her to lose just enough interest that she won't decide to come to my room some night. Of course, if they break up I would be more than willing to give her what she wants from me, so I don't want to destroy all interest or have her view me as pathetic.

Its a fine line, and more fun playing around and manipulating people than just fucking her would be, so I am learning even more about women. Being the cynic I am helps, because no female gets put on a pedestal by me, no matter how hot or chart they are. It just works as a drawback when you want them to keep their distance.

I don't want to be the guy who is known for fucking everyone's wives and girlfriends, even if they want to. Sex isn't worth the drama and bullshit it causes. However, if they aren't in this circle of friends, its game on and drop the panties.