TRP philosophy isn’t a black and white ideology.
Start being more self aware and realise that we need to tailor advice in TRP and our lives to our own personality.
Not everything is 100% the right way. There is only the right way for you.
All advice should be used in a way that is right for YOU.
People speak of aspects of TRP as being absolute truths and to stray from them would be “wrong”.
Example: The advice given by TRP on where to take girls when you first meet (which is: a bar, a coffee shop, mini golf etc.) How about the advice that is neglected the most: where are you most comfortable talking to girls? As long as she’s comfortable meeting at that place. That is better advice. That is a better location. That is more conducive to success.
Being a quiet person who doesn’t like a lot of stimuli. I love nature. That’s my personality. Wish it was different but the friction needed to change that aspect of my personality is so great that it would hinder other more valuable personal pursuits. Therefore: I meet women in parks or beautiful gardens in the city. It works. No advice in TRP really guides people to work with their strengths. That is where self awareness is so important as an individual using this powerful material.
If you get bored with meeting women then start to challenge your comfort zone, by meeting in an uncomfortable place.
The direction that TRP is instructing and cultivating through the culture is that there are certain hard truths that we all must work with. I agree with most of them. Some I don’t. I still love TRP but not every aspect.
Challenge what you idolise. Your human idol or hero shouldn’t be 100% correct about everything. My favourite things all have aspects that I disagree with.
The most important and valuable assets are health, personality, happiness and strengths. Don’t ignore them in pursuit of something greater. Use them as tools for your pursuit and live a better life without friction. Bet on your strengths. Work on weaknesses as necessary but make things easier on yourself by using what is already at your disposal.
TRP is powerful life changing advice. Just don’t follow everything blindly. Question it. How can it be improved. What changes need to be made to make certain advice more suitable or profitable or relatable or engaging to YOU.
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