I know this has been flying around the red pill forums and websites quite a lot. Firstly I would like to point out that the advice "stand away from the herd" "do your own thing" has been massively evacuated of all meaning. "Being a individual" has become a slogan taken on by overweight women and other types who want to rationalise their degenerate behaviour.

However that put aside, there is some important advice being given there. External validation is the death of us (the us being men). its largely a feminine trait, Facebook and shopping malls; the general consumer culture are overwhelming appealing to female narcissism. Even newspapers constantly feature lengthy articles that appeal to comforting women. (Ever read the London Evening Standard)

The beautiful thing about realising the nature of human beings, and the old aged wisdom which for some reason is deemed not politically correct. Is how you are on your own, your wife/girlfriend, job, money, all of this is transitory. Unfortunately a lot of the "betas" who strive for comfort and settle with their imperfections while watching some hollywood flick that shows the alpha getting his comeuppence is the hive mentality.They are doomed by their comfort and pursuit for it. The day and age for the hard working beta male is long gone, hypergamy is now unchecked and the rules of the jungle are going to devour him if he don't wake up to this harsh reality.

By obtaining this understanding, you begin to realise that you have to strive for something more worthwhile. A goal which will make you feel satisfied. Not the satisfaction that you get after wanking to internet porn, but the satisfaction you attain after a work out, something you do yourself.

It is a liberating feeling to acknowledge that you don't owe anyone anything and that they don't owe you. Of course when you begin to build your mini empire (Or large one depending who is reading this), you can expand your circle of influence to the tribe, family and friends.

Unfortunately its a room full of smoke and mirrors. A lot of men get stuck in the "women phase" which in reality they should grow out of when they are in their teenage years. I am talking about the idealisation and seeking validation from having sex with bang bitches.

Anyway I felt like writing this, after hearing from a friend, that some associates I had back in The U.K. Went to a "Prom themed" party, where the males dressed up in long dresses. One of the feminist males began sulking and got depressed because he didn't get talking to any girls, and believed it was because, he hadn't dressed in a dress like his friends had. Needless to say I am no longer shocked, but it shows how seeking validation, especially for males who conform to this behaviour, is truly making them into freaks and little boys.

Peace