Hey guys! Am currently at a beach week with this girl plus a few other people from my university. Let's call this girl "Amanda," because that's her name. For about a year now, I've been off and on interested in something with her, each time thinking she's interested and then reading signals that she's not—off and on, off and on. I'm pretty close friends with one of her good girlfriends as well, and from my "inside source," I've come to understand that this is likely because she doesn't know if she's interested either. We've also gone on two "dates," during daytime in which I wasn't able to escalate much more than lower back and sides touching. No kiss, etc.

This is NOT that normal for me. Usually it's Girl is Interested -> Heavy Kino -> Kiss -> Sex if I want it. There's even been a bunch of times where she has brought up my relationship status as a conversation topic on her own, and mentioned how she sucks at making the first move—and I did NOTHING.

I realize this sounds a lot like oneitis—sure, maybe. I realize I'm supposed to be outcome independent and just have fun. Totally.

For some reason, I have a mental block with this girl, I psych myself out, and can't hit on her normally. Fuck.

So here's my question. I have one week in constant contact with her. Chads, and Fellow Future Chads, how can I go about getting myself into the right mental state for this week? How do I flush the nerves, and how do I focus on interacting with this girl in a way that won't beta-ize myself from (very) longtime inaction?