I’m a university student at a big university in the states. Monday night around 2am I was contacted by a female friend of mine and her friend to come over because they wanted to vent to me and I gave good advice. They were clearly drunk, but I had been drinking as well and was a little lonely due to a nasty break up, so I thought some company would be nice even at the expense of babysitting drunk 18y/o females. I am almost 22.

    They call me an Uber and I arrive around 2:30.  I sat and listened to them rant about how shit guys were while biting back my tongue as to how many things they could do to make themselves a little more more desirable.  Just picture the always on Snapchat posting half naked pictures and complaining they can’t find a good guy type.  As I mentioned before, I was a little drunk myself, but I can handle my liquor and was not anywhere as drunk and cognitively impaired as them.     The friend of the girl who called took a liking to me a few days back due to a kiss we shared during a party game, but never acted on it as I’m assuming I was expected to make the first move.  Now that she was drunk, she was sitting on my lap, grabbing my neck aggressively and kissing me, and even putting her hand down my pants and basically stroking me while her friend was talking.  Then when her friend would go to the bathroom she would push me down and get on top of me and ride me with clothes on.  After this happened a few times it clicked I should probably tell her to calm down as she was drunk and I didn’t want to be involved in a case as they seem like the type.  I can’t even imagine how it would’ve gone if I was the aggressor putting my hand down her pants.     Fast forward they invite me back to their dorm and agree their gonna sleep together and let me have the other bed alone.  Rather than that, the girl who liked me begged her friend to let her sleep with me.  As skittish as it made me, I agreed and her friend talked to me for another hour or so and she passed out.  So no further contact was made in bed other than her grabbing my arms and putting them around her to cuddle.  I have insomnia especially when I drink, so from about 5-11am I just stayed awake in bed and tried to move away and take my own space on the bed because I knew I was in a compromising position if she woke up and pretended she didn’t remember me taking care of her, cleaning up their vomit, fondling me, or how she got in bed with me.    We woke up and they were clearly hung over, me not so much.  Everyone was kind of quiet because they were embarrassed, but I let them know it was all good and thanked them for the company but said I had to go.  The girl snapped me and apologized and said she was sorry for being so bold.  I told her I’d like to see her when we were sober and get to know her and she said she’d like that.  We made plans for 7 that evening and no further contact was had.  Around 6:45 I texted her and asked where to pick her up, and she left me on open.  No problem, though it did suck because there was a connection that morning when she woke up.  The night goes on and I hear nothing until the morning where I see on her friends snap story they were out at a frat party.    The frats at my school, and I’m sure most others, are notoriously douchey and predatory towards females.  Still hasn’t heard from the girl, but her friend asked me to run to the liquor store.  She asked how it was with the girl and I and I said she ghosted me and didn’t respond to our date for dinner.  She then said that the girl lied and told her I was the one who didn’t respond and that she really liked me, said I was sweet for taking care of her, and spoke highly of me.  Story of my life on that one.  She then proceeded to say that the night of the party, when we were supposed to have dinner and watch movies, she brought some guy home who supposedly raped her when she passed out.      I feel like an asshole for saying this, but for some reason I can’t muster up any sympathy due to the fact she had an option to see a guy she liked and chose to go be eye candy in a predator environment.  Does that make me a bad person for feeling bad about the action, but not really bad for her?  Reading more posts on this sub really helps how I deal and react with women, but I’m just wondering if anyone else has dealt with something similar where a girl has ghosted you for seemingly no reason, then got an almost instant dose of karma for making a bad decision for herself?  Obviously her friends don’t care much to make sure she was safe that night.  Thank you for coming to my ted talk.  MGTOW and redpill is really the GOAT.