http://i.imgur.com/20vIvp5.gifv

You have probably seen this on the front page just now. But we can make a few observations of the two boys displayed in this short gif, which is a simplistic view of the beta mindset.

  • Neither player is taking charge of the game. When you don't show leadership and forward thinking when interacting with a girl, you come off as non-alpha. There is a logical implication drawn up in girls minds that your beta behavior must mean an alpha exists in your pack, so you are instantly deemed a beta bux stepping stone at best.

  • Both players approach the game and only think of the other player. When you are so busy thinking of a girl's feelings and are so focused on what-ifs/probabilities and you let HER lead the interaction, this enforces the fact that you lack confidence, and are unable to take charge. If you think of yourself and your game, then you can see just where you are and more importantly where you need to be. It actually doesn't matter what the girl thinks because we all know of shit tests and sexual strategy and shit. It is more important what the girl says and does when you interact with her. This is alpha mindset, and no, it isn't selfish.

  • Both players lose the game. It's tictactoe. It is a simple game, where there are only two strategies: defense or offense. Do you ever wonder why the stars of any game are the offensive players? Do you ever hear much of that linebacker? No. You hear all about the quarterback or wide receiver or running back. Same with hockey; the higher profile players are the forward offensive and number of scores. Never the number of times a defensive position stopped an opposing rush. Alphas are the quarterbacks of football.

TL;DR: This gif is a clear simplistic example of a beta core mindset. It gets obvious of how bad this type of thinking is, when you place two beta thinkers into an environment where winning means one needs to think like an alpha, but neither do. The players hesitate and miss out on their prospective wins. So, your road to alpha starts with your core thinking. Better yourself, think of where you want to be, and not so much what others think of you.