The False Dichotomy Between “Outer” & “Inner” Game‏

[deleted] · 2014-01-16T18:03:12+00:00

The comments from Badger, another manosphere/game blogger are especially gold, here's one of his comments:

One other thing: “inner game” discussion is sometimes laced with the “women have a window into your soul” theory, a scare tactic that tells men that women can magically see through them and if they have any kind of nerves when running their game, women will be able to tell and so tactical game is pointless until you have a Biddhistic level of internal state control. IOW, “you won’t succeed so don’t even try.”

Women obviously have a vested interest in promoting the idea that they can read your mind, and another vested interest in telling themselves that they can do so and would never fall for a “fake guy.” A certain type of person has a further personal investment in the idea that they can “read people;” I’ve generally found that “people-readers” are really good at projection.

I quoted LaidNYC on this point who said “it’s all bullshit.” And generally speaking every person’s nervousness is bigger in their own head than it is externally, if you are self-aware of your nerves it’s probably not displaying as much as you think.

http://badgerhut.wordpress.com/2013/08/29/remember-that-women-get-approachee-anxiety/

Women do have very well-developed detectors for cues to emotional state, probably more developed than men’s on the whole. However, they only work in particular ways; Buss is right that perception can become deception, you can fake out those instruments. The early seduction guys found many effective ways to do that.

SomersetRaglan · 2014-01-17T03:30:21+00:00

Ok, so its several times now that I'm seeing the claim that opponents of pick up have called it rape. Was I out sick that day? Who said pick up was rape?

Title	The False Dichotomy Between “Outer” & “Inner” Game‏
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Date	January 16, 2014 5:34 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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