So I took a sublease from this guy for the summer and my roommate decided to leave his gf here over the summer because her job is close by and she lives extremely far.

She's a very shy and timid girl. Comes in from work changes straight into sweats and stays in her room. We get along on and off. At first she wouldn't come past the kitchen, little by little I worked her to come hangout on the couch. But I messed up and didn't close the week she was going to visit him in Seattle.

Ever since then she reverted back to the not coming past the kitchen phase. Until Friday I got her to go out on a "date" and we drank a bit. But my friends walked in on us and she seemed very standoffish like she got caught. Refused to drink anymore and left to go home at 7pm on a Friday !?!?

TRP community, how do I get back this alpha dynamic, I'm tired of this. I've demonstrated I'm fun, I've demonstrated I get girls, and that I'm likeable, we've even proached the topic of sex many times, I will be moving out in two weeks but I can't not sleep with her to me that's unacceptable.