I was watching the Sopranos and I was at one of those moments where Tony Sporano (the show's lead) is talking to the therapist about his problems.

Im not from america and to me, from outside, looks like youre going wrong with therapy. What do people do in therapy? They Talk. Just talk and bounce their ideas and dreams and fears and all the other shit off of someone.

Here is what the problem is. If you need someone to talk to shouldnt you have friends for that? Your cool aunts and uncles, your awesome grandparents? I seriously feel bad that you guys are missing out on some of the greatest joys in life by not having a real sense of family which shows togetherness in good and bad times equally.

So many thinga going 'differently'. I wouldnt say its wrong or sad because its just so different and nature has a lot of diversity in it. But i think it is definitely worth discussing the deeper problems with the loss of family as a basic social unit.