Hello everyone.

This post doesn't contain any new information, it is more of a system I put together for those of us who have trouble internalizing some principles while out in the field.

I coined the system The Three AB'sTM. They are as follows:

ABP (Always Be Prepared)

ABE (Always Be Escalating)

ABC (Always Be Closing)

Part I: ABP

Always be prepared. Simply put, when you are about to go out in the field, whether it is for a grocery run or a night out, get your shit together.

*Keep a neat beard/facial hair.

*Shave your pubes.

*Wear deodorant, aftershave, cologne, etc.

*Chew gum or brush your teeth.

*Make sure your hair and clothes are presentable.

*Keep your head on a swivel, or simply put, be aware and in the moment.

Feel free to add to this list. What I am getting at is, you never know when that HB might be throwing you an IOI or two, but bet your ass she will get turned off when you approach and your breath smells, you have some funky body odor, etc. It won't always blow your approach, but it will make it a harder battle when it really shouldn't be.

You will also walk around with more confidence. "Yea I look and smell good." "Yea I've been hitting the gym and my clothes fit me nicely." "Yea my new hairstyle is something to marvel at." In turn, it will project an aura and presence about you that will draw people in.

Part II: ABE

This is simple. Always escalate. Try and push the envelope as early and comfortably as possible. You just met a date? Cheek kiss and/or a hug. Fuck the handshake. You approached a girl and she's being receptive? Push in closer and get a hug or a high five for something you agree on. These are all socially acceptable.

Some of the subtle kino I have picked up on that works for me are as follows:

*When leading her somewhere take her by the hand or place her in front of you and push her forward by placing your hand on her lower back.

*During conversation, make a comment about and touch a ring, necklace, earring, bangle, whatever. Girls love wearing jewelry and if you notice and touch it she will not only be flattered that you complimented her on an accessory choice, but she will also be subconsciously comfortable with the idea of you touching her.

*Share something in common? A birthday, favorite dish, whatever? High fives and pull her into a hug or do one of the two.

*Whenever you are telling a story and are looking to emphasize a punchline or a big moment, put your hand on her wrist or shoulder or arm. She will most likely be comfortable and engulfed by your storytelling anyway. But, subconsciously, she is becoming ok with the idea of the slight touching.

*My personal favorite: When you are making a joke either in general or about her, or you are teasing her, nudge her with your elbow as you deliver the joke. It works wonders. Do this repeatedly whenever you are teasing her. Comfort levels spike up.

There will come a point during the interaction or date where she is either comfortable and into you or she just doesn't want you. Best way to gauge it is to either grab her hand or put your arm around the waist. I don't care how "beta" it sounds. Build that comfort. If she pulls back, you have work to do, if she acknowledges it, you are on the right track. You will also feel her subconsciously place her comfort into you when she leans in for the arm around waist or hand hold.

This brings me into the final portion.

Part III: ABC

If on a date, the common misconception (and trust me i'm no different) is to kiss her towards the end. Push for a make-out or whatever you and her are comfortable with. For maximum comfort and build-up, this push for a kiss should be done soon after she acknowledges the hand hold or arm around the waist.

Start with a tap kiss and gauge her lips. If she is open after the tap, make out with her. If not, relax, tap kiss, build tension, and then escalate again.

Your goal here is to close her as fast as possible. The second time you make out, grab her chest, grab a handful of her hair at the lower part of her head, or pull her chin in towards you with a finger or two. She will get more comfortable and place her hands on you (insert obligatory you have been lifting, right?)

You should be close to having her at your car, her car, somewhere private, or maybe even on the way to your or her place. You are on a prime track and all you need are the finishing touches.

Once at the final destination (car or home) begin the intense make-out. If she has been comfortable in public or while you were traveling, she will be fine here. Keep pushing the envelope. DO NOT SPEAK. Maintain plausible deniability at all times. If she says "I'm not sleeping with you" or "Not tonight" you have three options:

*defuse the shit test in any number of TRP approved ways

*ignore it and stay in the current make-out/groping session and tease and escalate further

*call it quits and go home or send her home

This last portion really depends on circumstances. Have you gauged her enough to determine whether she'd hit you with a false rape accusation? Have you done your part in not judging and slut shaming? Has she given you a hard no? Does her body language indicate her pulling back hard? Gauge the situation and make your decision.

SOME DISCLAIMERS

Please keep in mind that you must be doing all of this in conjunction with verbal game, body language, and eye contact.

Results vary greatly and people have their own unique ways of escalating. There is no right answer. This is a guide for the guys who are overthinking too much into how to initiate the kino.

Please, for the love of whatever you believe in, do not push too hard when you get resistance. COVER YOUR ASS.

I hope this helps create a structure for those who need it.

Feel free to add, critique, remove, or whatever it is that you want to do with this information.