Sup,

It's been a while since I posted, but I just wanted to share a video that I think shows you the most 'elite' frame in any individual, and it's funny so I think you'll enjoy. Now I know the content you're about to see is scripted but the type of conversation they have is very realistic and common in everyday life. So a bit of context: this is a TV show about entrepreneurs (Dragon's Den) who have to pitch their business idea to the 5 Dragons. Normally, contestants are trying their best to please and agree with the dragons, from a TRP lens you can see their frame is crumbling, at the start of the pitch, it's the entrepreneur who has the strongest frame (because they're the only one talking) but once the Dragons start asking questions and criticizing, you can see the entrepreneur is disappointed/worried/insulted and their initial frame flame from the start of the pitch burns down dramatically, these types of entrepreneurs rarely get an offer, it's always the strong-willed ones who get a deal.... so (slightly unrelated) life lesson for you.

Anyway, in the video, you see Jeremy Clarkson, who doesn't really need anything from the Dragons so they can make fun of Jeremy's idea all they like, he's not gonna get offended, in fact he'll use the power of his frame (by his frame, I mean the reality that his business idea is genius, anyone who disagrees is a fool!) to flip the pressure back on the Dragons, and there'e 5 OF THEM! and only one of him! you can use this same charisma to approach five girls who are bound to criticize you, try it! I see this whole video as a 'conversational fight' and Jeremy won, even though he didn't get the investment. My favorite part is where Deborah points out the flaw that his idea would need the train companies to design their trains and he responds "Redesigning them is easy, you just take the seats out" lol, if you can respond to any form of criticism in a manner like that, then you're on your way to having a bullet-proof frame.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnzV2-08w1o&t=172s