Short and sweet.

The reason so many find themselves in the company of a deplorable woman, versus the unicorn, is a result of the past choices.

When it is said that unicorns don't exist, its more accurate to say that in that place at that time, the ability to perceive unicorns do not exist.

Alpha, beta, omega are labels for a series of choices. One is not any of these but is always headed to one of these. Herein lies the power of personal responsibility: you are in control of where you're headed all of the time.