This is what has happened since I started reading the red pill - and it's amazing.

ClimbingTehLadder · 2016-04-12T16:08:03+00:00

Good on you for ghosting the "friends". That's one of the tougher parts.

alvlear · 2016-04-12T17:15:58+00:00

I knew deep down that this was an unhealthy way of living

Men know deep down there is something wrong with the blue pill. Men always know. Men know that women are attracted to tall men. Men know that women are attracted to men with bulging muscles. Men know that girls want men with a sophisticated sense of style, aggression, independence, and ambition. All of this is so obvious. But the blue pill cons men into thinking being nice, being 'gentlemen,' and sharing their feelings will get them drenched in pussy. The blue pill cons men into thinking that niceness, gentility, and touchy-feelyness always trump being tall, handsome, muscular, and powerful when it comes to attracting women.

The indoctrination is so complete that men desperately want this fantasy to be true. But deep down, they know. Something is wrong.

The blue pill is the reason an anti-depressant is the #1 selling drug in America. Why is the most affluent and advanced civilization ever known to man filled with so many miserable people?

[deleted] · 2016-04-12T17:31:38+00:00

and my approach to getting girls was to make friends with them and then try to turn this into a relationship or sex.

Aren't you just the cutest little thing. Bless your cotton-picking heart.

I'm kidding. I've been there. It would be nice if it worked that way wouldn't it? Be nice to someone and maybe it turns intimate? Nope. Be a dick, do a lot of push ups and peacock. It shouldn't work but it does.

DforDeadpool · 2016-04-12T17:31:04+00:00

Holy shit man that's good. Keep on slaying.

TheDonald2k16 · 2016-04-12T18:47:27+00:00

I've had a semi-dry-spell for 5 years, and my approach to getting girls was to make friends with them and then try to turn this into a relationship or sex. As seen it did not work out.

This is what I did all through middle school, all through high school, and all through college. I thought the way to get a girlfriend was to befriend her and orbit her until you gain her trust and get to know her well enough to where you then ask her out on a casual date and take it from there.

And I was never successful. Ever. I probably orbitted 15-20 girls from 7th grade to the end of college, a good 12 years, and not one of them ever became my girlfriend or have sex with me. I would shower them with praise, validation, buy them gifts, and all of that. I'd get a lot of first dates, and would never get a 2nd one.

And I wasn't a low status low value male either. I was a star athlete in high school and went on to play football in college. I would orbit these women who'd give me IOIs and flirt with me, then they'd get to know me, see my true beta self and friendzone me.

seattleron · 2016-04-12T19:16:27+00:00

Isn't it amazing how much better your life is once you stop listening to society (especially women) when it comes to women?

Think about it. You're a male, so you think logically and rational. It's logical and rational to think something to yourslef like:

"Well, women write these articles in women's magazines that give dating advice, and my mom is a woman, and women love these romantic comedy movies, so there has to be some truth in all of this nice guy stuff that society is telling me. I am going to be a nice guy feminist. I've been an asshole in my life, and that's my problem."

Then, you do everything your mom, TV, movies, magazines, married guys, etc, tell you to do. And what happens? You're never more miserable. You've never been hurt worse. The nicer you are, the more you get shit on. Then you try harder. You ask people for advice and they repeat the same things and you have more vigor than ever. You ask girls out, bring them flowers (because women melt when they get flowers like my mom said), you tell them they're beautiful constantly (because your ex told you that you never made her feel pretty and that was why she dumped you for Chad T. Caulk), you text them several times an hour (because your married buddy told you women love attention and you were going to give her all the attention she needs).

And after all of this, there's no way a woman wouldn't want to have sex with you. No way she lets you go, because how could she want such a catch as yourself to get away? Problem is, the more you did the things you were told to do, the more you repulsed her. The more you showed her your feelings, the more she felt apathy for you (the worst thing a woman can feel for a man, by the way). Then when you showed her how much you cared and cried when you told her how much you loved her (because that's what your cousin Jessica told you that you should do, and she's a blonde 7.5 and knows what she's talking about), you never heard from her again.

What gives?

What gives is, people tell you what they think they're supposed to say. Women tell you the things that will make THEM look best. Your mom, ex-gf, hot cousin, Tv shows, movies, and castrated married buddy aren't going to tell you that NOT making a woman the center of your life is a key to getting women attracted. They're not going to tell you to call her out on her shit when she's treating you like a bitch. They're not going to tell you that not contacting her all day until you're done working on building a garage out back and telling her to come over and rub your sore, tanned, muscular shoulders is much hotter than texting her 100 times a day in record response time.

They're not going to tell you those things because they are afraid what you, and society, might think of them if you do. Plus, women tell you what they feel in that exact moment, not what they think is reality outside of their current feelz.

Thank god for TRP, the truth, and support from fellow bros here, because otherwise we'd all be trying our hardest to just be a little nicer or send flowers a little more, or just avoiding making her uncomfortable, because that's what will win her over! We just have to try a little harder and be a little nicer! Women love that, just ask our moms!

redpillschool · 2016-04-12T19:26:47+00:00

/r/thanktrp

Title	This is what has happened since I started reading the red pill - and it's amazing.
Author	uptheresbeenawar1
Upvotes	26
Comments	11
Date	April 12, 2016 4:05 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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