Met a small cute hb6 last night a college party. We hit it off, I tease her and am jumping between talking to her and other girls. I approach her later in the night and she's on tinder, quickly swiping and rejecting 95% of the gene pool. She spends probaly a third of a second judging your first pic before she decides. She lets me look through her matches for a moment.

I knew it was bad but not this bad. She had 499+ 'likes' and about a 100 matches. Honestly I suspect the like figure surpasses a thousand. We're in a city of about a million and she has had it for 2 months. Dozens of messages poured in, showering her with compliments, it's honestly ridiculous. What an ego trip.

I asked her if most of the fun was the attention, the fact that she could choose whoever she wanted yet not have to and she grinned. She tells me she's met up with 5 of her matches, all free dinner dates and she's only kissed 2.

Later that night I was sleepy and she noticed, saying I could sleep in her bed for a bit while parties downstairs. She showed me to her room and I k-closed once we were alone. You know what happened next.

Bare in mind that I had been gaming her for a few hours at this point, I'm not a 'chad'. I'm 6ft, quite skinny and have about a 6 ish face. Still I'm very confident and can comfortably bring girls into my frame. I like fitting and always maintain strong eye contact. I'm only like this because I regularly talk to girls and just people in general.

Guys tinder is a buffer for you to avoid getting out there and approaching. It's true that some of you might have low smv and really struggle to pick up girls but even if you just talk to them with no intentions except to be friendly, you'll find yourself getting better and better. The gym is great but I feel it's equally important to keep approaching in real life.