Hello gents.
Recently, the growth I have experienced has been phenomenal. I found this sub almost 2 years ago now and swallowed the pill like the many conquests swallow whatever I decide to put in their mouth.
"Oh this guy's a bit of a twat; bragging/flaunting all this bullshit with no evidence" you think in your internal monologue. But it's true. I've made many mistakes, I've had many successes.
I could write hundreds of posts about my experiences with the opposite sex, some you'd think I was close to an Adonis and others you'd shriek in recoil with the fundamental mistakes I have made. Take some of my older posts for an example. They are like Instagram, however, only the "highlights".
The main thing I believe doesn't get across well enough in TRP is probably the most simple concept to uphold. EVERYONE is different.
I don't mean we are all unique and you have this unique sense of worth that is really attractive or powerful. Fuck that. I'm not feeding your ego, do that yourself. I mean everyone takes information and uses it how they want to, rather than reeling off line after line or play after play. If she says x, do y, if she says a, do b etc etc.
If you're 5ft 7 and walk into a room like you're 6ft 7 playing the I'll fuck anyone up that even looks in my direction you're going to come across as having "small man syndrome". Yes, TRP might have said to walk into a room with your chest out and shoulders back like you fucking own the place, but use that information and APPLY it to you. It would've been much smarter to walk into the room with a smile, allowing others to break eye contact with you as you look around before you embark on whatever is it you are doing. You'll still come across as high SMV, but you've just simply played to your strengths rather than your weaknesses.
If you've got the IQ of a pine cone and you rely on using wit, game and intellect to attract those HB's then again, it's your own fault when you fail. You haven't APPLIED the knowledge to yourself correctly. Yes game and conversation are important, but taking a more mysterious, indifferent and nonchalant approach to things and you'd probably do a better job. It's all relative to YOU.
When I first found this sub, I followed every single detail meticulously. Fine tuning all these variables with what I had read that day from the many resources provided by TRP. Sometimes I hit the jackpot and things worked out and other times I'd catch myself sweating profusely as the conversation with the girl next to me in the gym went sour and I had to face the reality that I'm going to be reminded of how badly that went, everyday single day. (Funnily enough she hit on me herself a few months later, but I had surpassed her SMV and wasn't interested anymore). This is what happens when you have more value, all the girls, even the ones who make it hard, make it easy if you're good enough.
The only change I've made over the past few months is to not be as autistic with my approach to TRP. I have loosened the shackles to allow my personality to flourish under the key fundamentals that fit my persona. And it seems to be the new foundation for exponential growth.
As much as this post is a bit of a brag and a standard "oh look at me, let me show you all these great things I have done that make me sound like I've got my shit together enough to warrant letting other people read about it online". It's just using my personal experiences to help resonate the cliche "be yourself" without actually being yourself. You know why girls always say just be yourself? Not because they like who you are, but because that person isn't a fake. That person knows his value in certain areas and has the ability to be a genuine and attractive person when accompanied by the principles that resonate with you.
tl/dr: Use TRP to apply to YOURSELF, to make YOURSELF as attractive and as powerful as YOU can be. Don't try and be someone you aren't.
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