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Validation as a tool

Dcon159
December 29, 2014
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Title Validation as a tool
Author

Dcon159
Upvotes 1
Comments 4
Date December 29, 2014 9:30 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2qqyfk/validation_as_a_tool/
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[–]RPSigmaStigma0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Are we talking pickup here, or in relationships?

In pickup, you can use complements to set a sexual frame, but usually you want to wait until you've reached the hook point, and you do it in a non patronizing way.

In relationships, you should use validation and compliments to reward good behavior, but don't over do it.

[–]ForbiddenFruit4201 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Try validating during an argument to end it on the spot.

[–]Dcon159[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What do you mean non patronizing way?

[–]RPSigmaStigma0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Say it if you mean it, but not for effect. Ie, it has to be a genuine compliment without any hint that you're doing it just to ingratiate yourself to her.

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