Validity

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2014-12-13T08:51:22+00:00

Focus on yourself, you can't control anyone else's actions

[deleted] · 2014-12-13T08:58:23+00:00

I agree with the previous poster. At the age of 19 time needs to be spent focusing on yourself (Health & career path etc). The less you care about the "bitches" the more they'll stat to crave you.

User-31f64a4e · 2014-12-13T09:59:54+00:00

Ah, 19. I have some vague memories of the college era.

For one thing, at that point in my life I thought things were fair, and got outraged when I found something that wasn't. That shit wore out fast.

If you expect women to be fair or honest or consistent or self aware or not to rationalize, you just set yourself up to be continuously outraged. Now if you're new to trp, then OK, having your beliefs changed to be more in accordance with reality hurts, thus causes anger. It's like expecting rain to be dry or dry ice to be comfortable to the touch, ideas which cause you to do silly things and get to upset when they turn out not to reflect reality.

So sure, maybe your naive life plan is now wrecked because you now see the reality of female nature. It's not how you think it 'should' be, and that upsets any plans around just getting a nice gal, being best friends with great monogamous sex, till death do you part. Probably not gonna happen - so you need to move on, as oranjemarlin suggests here (focus on yourself). And consider: the only hope to make that plan happen, if you want it, is to be RP and Alpha as shit in who you pick and how you manage her. Or go MGTOW - whatever, your choice.

But if you want to be happy, you have to just drop your ideas about women should be, see clearly how they are and act accordingly. If you are wise, you can use this as the source of amused mastery you want to strive for. Any time you get mad or angry or annoyed at a women or at women in general, ask yourself "Why do I expect sanity from insane creatures? Why do I expect women to be different from how I know them to be?" You can come up with the formulation best for you, but the basic idea is asking yourself, "Why do I expect certain behaviors from a group who don't exhibit them?" Maybe you can even be slightly amused - "ah yes, she's acting like a woman", and be amused that AWALT when you see them being how they always are.

Hope that helps you get your mind in a good place.

Title	Validity
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Upvotes	1
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Date	December 13, 2014 8:02 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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