We as humans are like clay, unless something comes along and shapes and forms us, most of us will remain a patch of goo. For alot of men in today's society that something would be women.

The thing about clay is it can take a form, be broken down, and then reshaped, IT CAN'T BE DESTROYED. The problem comes when you become dependent on something else to shape you. You as a man aren't granted inherited value, your value is given by the form/shape that you have been molded into (E.g parents, religion, philosophical beliefs, society, etc.)

The thing about women is they're attracted to what stands out. If you take the form of a silver diamond, while everything else is shaped like rocks, or vice-versa, they will awe and be astonished by you, for awhile, but if you take the shape/form that you want with your own will, that makes you the happiest, you'll be awed and astonished by yourself for a lifetime.